If your crush rejects you, does that mean you won’t date anyone else?

Question

Imagine your crush rejected you but there are other girls guys too out there. You won't date them since you dont like them like you like your crush?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Not at all , there are plenty of fish in the sea and plenty of beautiful girls’ out there , so if I am rejected by my crush , I realize her and I weren’t meant to be and move on , and eventually invest my time into someone else that I find beautiful, . Rejection sucks , but it isn’t the end of the world , I rather be with someone that wants me the same way I want them , why I do not put all my eggs into one basket when I am looking for a new partner unless I feel a strong connection with a girl immediately, otherwise I will date other girls’ as well until I feel a deep connection with one of them , that’s what dating is for , dating is for you to find a deep connection with someone , it’s ok to date multiple people at once if you choose to , because there is nothing set in stone , so the respectful thing to do is just be honest with everyone that you are dating and let them know that you are just dating now , until you find a deep connection with someone , if they don’t like that you are dating other people , then they have a choice whether to continue dating you or not , so that’s their problem not yours. There was a time I dated 7 girls’ at once , because I wanted to take time to really get to know someone before rushing into a relationship with someone , I was honest with everyone of them , and they chose to continue dating me , because I was honest with them , when they could of easily said Fuck this and walked the other way. The problem with a lot of people is the fact that they are scared to be honest , which in my opinion is stupid to do , considering honesty is what brings respect and trust with each other , when you lie , you are only hurting yourself , because once the truth does shine, and it will shine eventually, you will suffer the consequences of your actions. Just be honest , if you are truly seeking a deep connection with someone. If you are just seeking sex , be honest about it , don’t screw with someone’s’ heart because you are only thinking of yourself and what you want , and not caring about what they want , so just be honest and I guarantee you will have a way better chance of getting. And keeping someone interested in you , other than blowing smoke up their asses and blind siding them. From my experiences with girls’ most of them like to be the chasers , and like a guy that is honest with them , Girls’ aren’t stupid people , they know men way better than we know them because girls’ receive a lot
More attention than most guys’ receive. So you can act like you are this slick dude that thinks his shit doesn’t stink to try to impress girls’ but little do you realize , she c’s right through that bullshit. I tell guys’ all the time just be yourself , treat her the way you want to be treated in return , and your chances of getting her interested in you will increase tremendously. I don’t consider myself the best looking guy on the planet , I just treat people the same way I like to be treated in return , with honesty and respect and by being that way has increased my chances witn girls’ because I am honest and respectful to people the same way I want to receive from them and girls’ are drawn to that , I am not saying I get every girl , but I get girls’ that want the same thing. Nobody wants to be lied to , nobody wants smoke blown up their ass. So when you accept yourself for who you truly are , that’s what draws people in , that want the same as you. Value your self worth and realize you are a valuable person and realize you are a prize and not just some convenience. I only date girls’ that bring happiness into my life , that choose me the same way I choose her. No one on this planet is perfect we are all imperfect people and we all make mistakes , so what matters is if you learn from those mistakes , to be a better version of yourself. Once you achieve that , Girls’ will want to be closer to you , mark my words.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Lmao. If I'm rejected what does that mean that means nothing to me it means this person had a good reason or they had their reason why they could not date me you call the Rejection I call it we were meant to be together so hell no I move on I'm not going to let anybody in this world hold me back feel sorry for myself

Everything in this world happens for a reason

And just like I say when I answer questions just because I think it doesn't mean that I'm right

So Just because you rejected Doesn't mean that it's a bad thing It means timing Was off Maybe the girl had a boyfriend Ever seen somebody else

You call the Rejection I call it growing

You call it rejection because you were embarrassed by it

Get over it life goes on
And then you find the one you love and love you

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I got reject by Juan Carlos Longoria Date of Birth: Sepetember 28 ,1991 Conroe TX. oh here let me give you his addressed I paid $20 online to find out his addressed.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

You'll probably never love someone the same way as you loved the milestone people in your life, but you do have to make an effort to try to find the next person.

AviatorTom · Answer

No, that's self-defeating. There are many fish in the pond, not just the one you want to take the bait and reel in.

browsingthroughthe · Answer

I'd get back on the horse 🐴🐎

Best to just get back on the dating carousel 🎠

Of course, I'm not Woody and personally I'm not a fan of horses, no offence Bullseye.

I'm more a fan of pigs pink ones 🐖 🐷 and of course, dairy cows - moooo 🐄 🐮

Anonymous · Answer

Tbh I have goten rejected by fat, skinny, dwarfs, tall queens. i have been rejected by so many people.
And I have been rejected even as a friend. I tried to be just a friend but within a day I have been discarded, blocked, etc.
I didn't even say anything to get like that.
I still try and get no where with my life
So that it.
I have partially given up, I am trying just because I can at least say that I tried my best. So that people can say you did your best and still failed. That it can't be helped.
So there is nothing more.

jshm2 · Answer

LOL, I bet around 99% of "crushes" are unrequited and pointless endeavours.

But most of these are settled around teenage years, and kids learn to know better.

If you are still suffering "crushes" as an adult, you need to grow up.

LiamJHayden · Answer

lol Well I have not had a crush since I was 10, but if someone I am interested in rejects me I might ask out her sister or best friend. I legit do not get upset about not fitting someone's preferences and move on immediately. Of course I cold approach and am not one to spend weeks or months building up to the ask so I have little invested.

MartinKlingac · Answer

No, not at all. Rejection hurts, but it doesn’t mean you should close your heart to someone else. Life goes on, and the right person may still be out there. ❤️

ericJackson · Answer

Attraction and compatibility require the right timing and mutual chemistry. One person not feeling that spark doesn't mean others won't.

gasman70 · Answer

no, that's crazy, the likelihood that your crush likes you back is very low, so if you're counting on that to be the only thing, then you're really buying a lotto ticket for your love life. you need to have more than one egg in your basket.

genericname85 · Answer

no. it just means i'm not gonna date that crush xD realisticly, i will probably be sad for a while and maybe not go out of my way to find someone else right away but eventually i will.

RachyRach · Answer

For a while definitely. But I guess at some point you'd hope that you will meet someone else you fall in love with that loves you too

MikeInHawaii · Answer

I have women reject me then get jealous when they see me flirting with someone else. My options weren’t you or the priesthood. It’s ridiculous. Move on!

loveyouoak · Answer

If he rejects me, I don't want to be with anyone else. I'll just stay alone and find peace.

EmmaMary · Answer

It means you go off and join either a Monastery (Monk) or Convent (Nun).

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Depends how close I am with her/how much I want her.

afnan169 · Answer

There will be other more beautiful girls than her. Go for them. Don't get fooled by Bangladeshi Indian dramas.

AngryCarl3 · Answer

No, that's silly. Remember, girls are basically interchangeable. Like footballers.

Twalli · Answer

I have never only crushed on one girl. I have favorites, but it was never just one, and no others.

Molly1990 · Answer

No, just take time out, not have them in my life.

dragoblack · Answer

Then work on yourself and find acceptance of rejection. If you can't, you shouldn't date.

Anonymous · Answer

What do you do? I bet you try hard in finding a better girl than her

Mayank7982 · Answer

Does that mean don't worry if she didn't accept? Just move ahead and find another one

RareBreedOfMan · Answer

No there's more fish in the sea.

exitseven · Answer

No I always got back on the horse if I could

Anonymous · Answer

No. Rejection is part of life.

fishbone77 · Answer

are you kidding?

Alexson_stormzy · Answer

No... Not at all... I don't think so finally

CountryGirl7 · Answer

It mean I stalk them to the end.

Khyaaaa305 · Answer

No I would date someone new

MrChinaski · Answer

Nope.

canamlusciouslad73 · Answer

Nope.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Not at all

kinks1951 · Answer

Find one that fits

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