And according to some of the answers I got, tomboys who don't have a girly side are hella rare. I feel like my dating standards were too high.
The thing with me is, I find masculine traits in women more attractive than feminine traits, and my ex-girlfriend (and my ex-friend with benefits) was WAY more like a guy than a girl. She liked the same things I liked, she was good at fighting, she loved horror movies and Call of Duty, and was a little bit into guns. A lot of guys would likely reject her if she was still like that, but her male traits was a turn-on for me.
For me personally, the ideal woman is basically a total tomboy. I'd prefer to date/marry a woman who I could do guy things with. Play CoD: Black Ops Cold War with, watch action or horror movies with, go hunting or wrestle with, you know the drill. And one of my ex-GF and ex-FWB's masculine traits was that they were aggressive. So... aggression is attractive to me as well.
My question is, are my expectations in dating too high? Am I in the wrong for wanting to date a pure tomboy (AKA, one who isn't girly)?
(And for @ShadezMcgee in particular, is something wrong with me for not really seeing the appeal in feminine traits?)