Search Results: finding out if he has a girlfriend

I am completely doomed when it comes to finding love. I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I only want a woman who has never had her first love or a boyfriend before. I don't know if I will find that. I am tired of searching.

I still want to have the option at least to have kids and be a dad. Should I consider surrogacy or adoption?

I don't have a specific one in mind. I don't even know if any of the one's I'd like are single, let alone would be interested in me, and I have zero idea of how to approach, but this is more about the concept of if it's a good fit for me or not.

The entire concept seems unfitting for me because of how social it is.

I hate parties, and I don't like lots of attention. But it's just that I'm racking my brain trying to find a girlfriend who shares my interests and hobbies, and there are very few ways that those interests/hobbies manifest in public that result in seeing an actual person, and every time I see someone I think I would click with, it's one of those people...

Nearly all the activities I enjoy result in staying home by myself. And I do not know how to find artistically talented gamer nerds outside of the rare comicon or the overpriced arcade (which aren't very populated by my age group to begin with). Anyone I'd like is either a shut-in while doing those activities, or has one of those jobs.

Assuming you knew I was attractive, talented, a gamer, an artist, and a nerd (ie a male equivalent to these women), do you think I should persue this? Or do you have a better idea for finding that type of girl?

I find it very sad how men are valued these days. It seems that people only value a man if he has a girlfriend.
Like how is it my
fault it’s so hard to find a woman that loves me
for me? You can ‘have it allllll’ yet be stuck in my position where the women you meet are very far from worthy of you.

Finding, meeting and getting to know this type of girl is hard. In fact it’s once in a lifetime.

Why judge me for choosing to be a virgin and single to find it.

I hate women ONLINE these days. You almost all suck.

Trust me a precious woman who is compatible with you exists but is so rare to find and it’s most likely not you

Hopefully all women on here can realise the truth before they try to insult a man’s human worth. Which is what they’re good at