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My boyfriend recently moved in with his best friend (happens to be female). I have had no issue with this and so far her and I get along. However I feel like he is consistently choosing her over me. He will be with me for a couple hours then run home because they have stuff to get done in their place and then he tells me they're out shopping for stuff including going on personal errands with her. He has "accidentaly" put off our plans because they got caught up watching t. v. shows together and I sat waiting. We also had plans for the 3 of us to grill and hang out Memorial Day and he later text me that they could not barbeque anymore and he was going with her and her family to dinner with no notice or discussion about me joining or doing something else that at least took me into consideration, he just made the new plans without me. I talked to him about how I felt I was not being made a priority or included in things and he said he agrees I should be a priority. I explained that if I am part of plans I expect to be involved in the plans when they change (and that if he had just called me I more likely than not would have been fine with him going).

A week later he was going to go out to dinner with an out of town friend but it fell through. I was with a couple of my friends and invited him and his roommate over. He told me she did not want to feel like the 5th wheel so she wasn't coming and then he suddenly wanted "me time". I was upset because I felt as if he wanted to be with his roommate rather than me (he said he was not feeling like going out even after I explained we were just at my place and not partying). He said he feels like I'm giving him an ultimatum between his friends and being with me which I do not feel is fair as I do not impose or try to cancel his plans with friends when they are already planned. I tried telling him I am feeling like I am being treated as the friend rather than the girlfriend.