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If your male friends with benefits does the following:
- taking showers together
- watching movies together
- mentioning you in a sentence " I hate sl*ts that cheat. Imagine if we had a quarrel and cheat on me"
- having breakfasts together the morning after
- joking about him "breaking up with me" for me to say that I don't want him to leave me
- saying he doesn't use you, otherwise he would always leave after sex, as there would be no point in staying. but he stays every time. he also wouldn't spend much time with me.
- having walks
- he makes a list of movies we both should watch
- he tell you we don't have to have sex every time he stays for the night
- he says we should get used to simply spend time together (without having sex)
- you both become closer when starting friends with benefits relationship
- acting silly
- he jokingly gets jealous over me and other guys who notice me (or are just my male friends)

BUT:
- he told you before ( 3 weeks ago) he doesn't want to have any relationships as he was heartbroken by a girl who broke up with him 3 years ago and since then restricts himself from relationships
- now he says he got used to me
- he doesn't want to touch or kiss in front of strangers

So what does he actually want? A relationship or just friends with benefits with more benefits? Our relationship is getting beter and closer as time passes.

this isn't really a question but here's some tips for guys. 1. If you're texting her, tell her you gotta take a shower. She'll not only wait for you to get back to texting but she'll become more attracted to you because the image of you taking a shower will be in her head. 2. If you want a girl, fight for her and if she doesn't accept it, she isn't worth it anyways. 3. when you walk by look into her eyes and hold her chin up or caress her cheek for a few seconds. 4. Grab her hands randomely and start dancing or kiss one of them. 5. Sneak a cheek kiss in public when no one is looking. 6. Tell her what you want to do to her. 7. Tell her future plans about yourself and include her in them. 8. take your jacket off when she's looking and "accidentally" take your shirt off with it. 9. if she's in view of you, stretch your arms outward. 10. walk up to her, cradle her face in your hands and say how are you. 11. Pick her up out of no where. 12. if you meet her gaze across a room wink or smile. 13. if you're near a wall about to kiss, slowly push her towards the wall to kiss her, but gently. Add more tips below!