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We all know (or at least should know) that "white" or "white" women is/are the standard of beauty in society for some odd reason. I say white only because other features like a Roman nose, straight hair, colored eyes aren't exclusive to the usual western idea of beauty.

I can't tell how I look to others or if it's genuine, whether I'm universally attractive (attractive to a large group/various groups of people with different beauty standards) or just ugly.

Of course I've had the occasional people that don't find me attractive.

I've noticed hostility from girls that I've worked with. The same that I've noticed from family growing up. Girls that will lie, act funny, make smart comments or avoid me for no apparent reason.

Then there's guys that I hear say I'm pretty or compliment me but it seems like guys compliment even the most sub par women just to get sex.

I've worked with guys where I knew they found me attractive and tried to be friendly for one thing.

I've had a customer come into a store I worked at and called me pretty. At the same place my coworkers (all male) were super nice and would act weird in a good way or compliment me. One told me a supervisor from the other store that came to help was on the phone with a guy from his store and said "there's this cute black girl that works here"

I apparently don't look like Megan fox or madison beer. Nor do I look like Lauren London or Megan good.

I've never had guys ask me out on a genuine date to get to know me for me. Maybe it's just this generation. I worked at a call center & a few guys in my training class tried to hit on me or they'd just stare.

I've also heard negative comments from men and it was usually when I was dressed up going out and it'd be something like "she thinks she's a superstar" "she just wants attention " petty things like that.

The negative experiences are what sticks with me and makes me think maybe I'm not so pretty.

They're exactly the same style but I cannot decide which color to get. Black contrasts really nice with my light hair but the grey one is just so pretty. I'm afraid it could make me look chubbier and not as good though. Most of the stuff I have&wear is black though so I thought maybe it's time for a change.

Before brushing I had intended to wear this until Wednesday... I’m just wondering if I really messed it up and hastened the end?

I was able to wash it and conditioned it ~ no problem. It is a shame I messed with it. I just became curious snd I guess since I knew it was nearly up anyhow, I brushed.

Thing is I spend so much time brushing my original actual attached to the scalp hair, which keeps it from becoming unruly , I don’t understand not being able to brush hair.

I don't know silly but it as getting to me~ Kind of like not being able to pick up a piece of osier on the floor.. I found it very unsettling. lol oh well I should’ve just just handled it 😛🤷‍♀️

Anyhow -bla bla bla - no one cares- 100th wig post 🤦‍♀️😁 ~~~ Well, it’s really bc I’m simply not used to wigs. I won’t ask so many hair questions once I get the hang of it. 😊

What do you guys think?

{Well , at least those of you who were still thinking “keep”. I know a good deal we’re ready to toss. }

This time I added out door pics. The color is obviously much lighter in the Sun. The actual color is not quite so light as the lightest picture.

Once again, Thank you for your feed back 🌺

Thing is my hair is naturally wavy so, curly hair shouldn’t look so bad on me.

Maybe the Curls are too tight so do not suit. Or the hair is just straggly...

The pictures are not great. I’m sorry about that. It is grey Out so lighting is bad. Adding artificial light makes it blurry. So I can say it does look better irl. Significantly but not drastically.. Maybe about 20% better.

I have thus far shipped back:

Honey blond curly
Black curly
Straight turquoise ombré
Medium brown curly is pending, but it’s looking fairly certain.

Once again, please Do NOT be worried of hurting my feelings. I’m not posting for an ego boost. I want a realistic observation. Like what you would think but would not say if you saw me in public - good or bad. I can’t or won’t ask strangers so you are basically filing in for the silent people who would be walking by.

(Doesn’t matter and I feel dumb explaining but I’m doing it anyhow🤦‍♀️—but that bulge is not my stomach. The shorts are loose and they poof out a bit. They didn’t have my side in that color so I went up two sizes and I thought I could just put them in the dryer to make them fit. It works initially. but they get loose during the day. _Ok_no one cares. I’m neurotic I know 🤷‍♀️)

Thank you 🌺