Of course I've had the occasional people that don't find me attractive.I've noticed hostility from girls that I've worked with. The same that I've noticed from family growing up. Girls that will lie, act funny, make smart comments or avoid me for no apparent reason.
Then there's guys that I hear say I'm pretty or compliment me but it seems like guys compliment even the most sub par women just to get sex.
I've worked with guys where I knew they found me attractive and tried to be friendly for one thing.
I've had a customer come into a store I worked at and called me pretty. At the same place my coworkers (all male) were super nice and would act weird in a good way or compliment me. One told me a supervisor from the other store that came to help was on the phone with a guy from his store and said "there's this cute black girl that works here"I apparently don't look like Megan fox or madison beer. Nor do I look like Lauren London or Megan good.I've never had guys ask me out on a genuine date to get to know me for me. Maybe it's just this generation. I worked at a call center & a few guys in my training class tried to hit on me or they'd just stare.
I've also heard negative comments from men and it was usually when I was dressed up going out and it'd be something like "she thinks she's a superstar" "she just wants attention " petty things like that.
The negative experiences are what sticks with me and makes me think maybe I'm not so pretty.
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"White is the standard of beauty for some reason", do you think it might have to do with the fact that its the "standard" because white people make up 63% of the population? Also what do you mean the "standard", as in this is what is "pushed" by society? because that isn't the case, things are marketed more towards white women because again, are you trying to get 13% of the population (blacks), 17% of the population (Hispanics), or 63% of the population (whites) to buy your product?
As for universally attractive, their is no such thing. Some will find you attractive some will not, some prefer white women, some prefer black women, some prefer Asian, and some prefer Hispanic, others however won't.
So how can you gauge how attractive you are? Well, you can look in a mirror, you can see how often you are ogled or asked out, you could post your picture online and ask to be rated if you really want to. Its hard to say though because every one is different (I don't have a racial preference, but some people do (my friend is white, he prefers Hispanic and black women, I know of other white guys who only want white or Asian and so on and so forth).
Yes, that standard is pushed by society. Everytime you turn on the tv you see mostly white people, most ads, games, etc. Its not because other races dont want roles or dont try out for things, its because thats what companies purposely look for. America has a dark history.. White people are becoming a minority.
Ah, so your racist. Whites are not a minority, they are the majority ergo the majority of people in the media and on tv are white because. . . the majority of people are white. Also what dark history are you talking about? Are you referring to slavery which predates the written language and existed for over a century in Africa, the middle east and asia after Europeans and americans ended it? Not really a good argument. Also it was 150 years ago and it was pushed by a sizable minority of people whom the majority fought (in its bloodiest war) to end it and did so. Then those same people tried to undermine the peace and equality that the majority put in place and the majority fought it tooth and nail to the point where its now a non issue. Meanwhile how benevelonent and kind have African nations been? Well they mass murder not only rivalling tribes but also have been commiting genocide against whites and have slavery (in fact slavery wasn't officially abolished in Africa until 1981). So no, we don't have a dark history, Africa and the middle east and asias history was slavery was good, racism was good, and they had no desire to change it. Meanwhile the idea that this was wrong occurred in the west and America, we ended it, we thought that racism was wrong and now we are the ones who are being told we started it despite the fact that whites where enslaved by Africans for millenia (you can look at roman history for instance, where north arfricans were constantly raiding their cities for slaves. You can look at the history of spain where muslims came in and enslaved the populace, you can see it in eastern Europe where the ottomans came in and enslaved whites (in fact the term slave is derived from the term slav which itself was short for Slavic i. e. white blonde hair blued people who where enslaved by huns (Asians), mongols (Asians) and muslims (middle easterns) so much that their very name became synonymous with forced subjugation).
As for us becoming a minority, the fact that you say that with seeming glee shows that your rabidly racist. Name me one non white nation that has even HALF as many whites in their nation and gives them equal rights. How many African nations welcome immigrants from asia or any other place in the world like white nations do? How about china, or any Asian nation welcoming in africans? Middle eastern nations? Yeah, none do. So that's why "whites are becoming a minority", because unlike every single other group in this world, we are not racist. However you are clearly. I have no idea if your physically attractive or not, but I can tell you your personality is ugly.
You wrote entirely too much nonsense for me to read. All of a sudden I'm racist for speaking facts? Black people can't be racist anyways, I can be prejudice not racist. Nice try
Stop assuming I'm speaking of the effects post slavery
How the hell can you not be racist? The very claim that you cannot be racist is racist. You are literally judging one race differently then others, assigning traits to one race and not another and claiming one is better then the other. That is racism by literal definition. Again, you are incredibly racist and kind of a shitty person.
As for your "post slavery" affects, their are none. Everything blacks are going through now started in the sixties when they began to have more and more out of wedlock birth rates (74% now) and the lack of fathers in the homes. Also again, you said a dark history which as I pointed out, was actually a hell of a light brighter then any one elses history. Also again, your praising the destruction of a group of people, the only people by the way who has been the most friendly and open of any group in the world bar none (objectively speaking). Again, that makes you racist and ignorant.
You literally make no fucking sense
No I do (everything I stated is provable fact), you just don't like what your hearing because you have been told your entire life that white people are evil and out to get you and that the system is whats responsible for every bad thing that has ever happened to black people (but not the bad things that happen to every one else for some reason) and therefore you should never be held accountable for your actions nor should any other black person. Meanwhile African immigrants are doing better then most whites despite these "racist" systems and the richest people in the country are all minorities (Indian, Thai, Filipino, Jewish in that order). Its nothing more then an excuse to wallow in self pity and blame others for what is going on in your community (again, 74% out of wedlock birth rate, 150% more likely to commit a hate crime compared to whites, 80% of interracial violence and crime is commited by blacks against whites, between Hispanics and blacks 80% of the crime and violence is commited by blacks against Hispanics as well, 50% of all violent crime is commited by blacks despite being only 13% of the population etc. etc. all of which started in the sixties (i. e. not slavery or jim crow laws (which were all created and enforced by democrats which about 90% of blacks vote for (for some reason)).
The fact is, you've been indoctrinated into a set of beliefs that are incredibly racist not just to whites but blacks as well (because its a belief structure that sees blacks as inferior (because what other explanation do you have for every single other group succeeding within the system except for blacks?)) as well as being highly self destructive (because if everything is every one elses fault their is no reason for you to change your behavior and fix your communities thus ensuring that the problems that you have continue until such a time that you step up and try to change them).