I go over to her and grab her hand and get her out of there and from there walked her home. When we got to her front door she grabbed my hand firm and then kissed me on the lips (unexpected tbh). For the next few days she started giving me rides to work and one day she made a pass at me letting me know she was single. I didn't pursue it and maybe that was stupid. I always kind of lived by the philosophy "wasn't good enough for you then, not good enough for you now" or "reject me at my worst, I reject you at my best" deal. Not so much because of pride but more as a measure of safety that I'm with someone who valued me even before I got to where I am. Not sure if the decision was right but I figure looking back that things happen the way they do for a reason. Maybe I can make wiser choices in the future if I know how your heads tick. by the way why do you think things changed from that event?
Girls, have you ever wrongly gauged a guy to be a pushover only to find out he was secretly a hard ass when he needed to be (read my example below)?
I go over to her and grab her hand and get her out of there and from there walked her home. When we got to her front door she grabbed my hand firm and then kissed me on the lips (unexpected tbh). For the next few days she started giving me rides to work and one day she made a pass at me letting me know she was single. I didn't pursue it and maybe that was stupid. I always kind of lived by the philosophy "wasn't good enough for you then, not good enough for you now" or "reject me at my worst, I reject you at my best" deal. Not so much because of pride but more as a measure of safety that I'm with someone who valued me even before I got to where I am. Not sure if the decision was right but I figure looking back that things happen the way they do for a reason. Maybe I can make wiser choices in the future if I know how your heads tick. by the way why do you think things changed from that event?
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