Why would a guy constantly stare at a girl who has a crush on him?

[Anonymous]

A guy from college believes I have a crush on him (a mutual friend told me) and constantly stares at me whenever he sees me when he thinks that I don't pay attention. Why would men do this? To gauge my interest so that they could use me for sex? Is it safe to assume that he does not like me/find me attractive?

[Anonymous]

He has the devil's death grip. Meaning he has trouble getting hard, staying hard and cumming without his own manual stimulation and porn, this is caused by too much jerking off and porn. Maybe sleep with him naked without sex and he will be fully hard by the morning, you may even wake up with a hard dick in being thrust into you as you sleep. If he still has problems cumming just suggest he jerk off to you while you make out, play with his balls, sit on his face, wiggle your butt, stick your tits in his face etc and let him cum on you ass/tits/face/belly pussy and so on. You may even have him jerk of to the point of orgasm and have him put his dick in you and let him pump until he cums as normal or take over jetking him off so he cums in your hand or suck him off until he cums.

[Vikkrram]

Ok forget all those things that you asked...
Answer this Do you find him attractive and have crush on him?

[Asker]

Let's assume I do find him attractive and have a crush on him

[Vikkrram]

See , if a guy is genuine he won't be using you for sex and won't see you as a sex machine. Like if you talk about me i have a crush on a girl from 2 Years i haven't confessed her not even have talked wid her , but i never thaught anything sexual about her.
I just thaught that someday I wish i could hold hands of her , and would talk wid her a lot.
She would say and I would listen.
We will go to a walk.

I never would use her , never in my life.

[Asker]

Yes you do have a crush on her. But he probably does not have a crush on me and apparently he has no game so I'm afraid he might be trying to use me and move on after

[Vikkrram]

It's upto you ma'am that you have to find out. If ur gut feeling say go wid this guy then go otherwise don't go.

It's totally your call.

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe he's just sizing her up to see if he might actually like her or, he's just trying to figure out if she REALLY likes him or, it's all just part of the rumour mill.

[boggboss]

How is it u assumed he would try to use u for sex from him looking at u sorry?

[Asker]

1. I know he does not find me physically attractive
2. If he liked me wouldn't he eventually try to make a move on me? I talked about this with a few guy friends of mine and they all think he does not like me and considers me low hanging fruit

[boggboss]

How do u know 1 for a fact and no looking wouldn't make him approach u if he liked u and how did your friends assume it means he thinks your low hanging fruit

[Asker]

1. I've been studying him for years and all the girls that catch his attention look very similar and completely different from me.
2. My friends think that interested men just act differently than him and that therefore he pays attention to me only because he has ulterior motives

[boggboss]

1 that means absolutely nothing lol one can have more then one type but sure thing
2 this is based on the opinion of guys its not factual guys don't all act one way its ridicules to think he would either way it seems weird that if u assumed he was just going to use you that u would still be focusing on him

[Asker]

2. Might be but some clues are very obvious. For instance if a guy always flakes on you then he most likely does not like you in a romantic way

[boggboss]

I would say if he flakes he dont like u fullstop