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Search Results: low self confidence
Why is it so hard to boost your self confidence?
I have been suffering from low self esteem for years. I have been called both pretty and ugly. I have days where I feel pretty and I know I'm pretty, but the negative thoughts in my head take control of me on other days.
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I start liking the way I look?
a lot of people would consider me very pretty but I just don't see it and i feel like they just say im pretty out of sympathy. When i was younger i was very attractive but even then i hated the way i looked. Im...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 Does this make me a horrible person/friend?
So I went through a really bad breakup recently & I've been really struggling to deal with it. The whole situation has been really hard, it’s knocked my confidence, self esteem & I just feel really down. My best...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do/did you turn your insecurities around?
My low self esteem and insecurities make me ugly and unattractive to others. I dont mean in a romantic way, but in general. I would be more wanted and loved if i had actual self confidence. Im almost hitting my 30s and im...
Maebo8
Xper 3 Age: 32 Do women who finally find a tall guy automatically become assholes?
As I'd just found once again , that shallow women who by accident find a horrible tall boyfriend , become an asshole right away. Guess that the fact tall guys in general have such a low self-confidence , they are...
Petra150
Xper 6 Age: 42 Is it true most people believe good looking people likely have better personalities?
I have always thought this most my life. I still do I think this way because if you are good looking you are likely secure about the way you look which gives you confidence and high self esteem. It is very true...
Anonymous
(30-35) Any advice on difficult colleague, and next steps?
I work with a colleague that negatively effects the serenity of the team. Advice from you, for remedies? She told HR confidentially, that she has “a diagnosis of depression” . Our manager told us that she is prob...
Anonymous
(30-35) Advice from Dr. Wendy Walsh
I had noticed not many people responded to me when I asked this as a question. But she is spot on and talks about all the topics we discuss on here. I just thought that it would be fun to highlight her and some of the...
Jjpayne
Editor Age: 42 What is his true intention and why did he say he doesn’t see me as fat?
I have a guy friend and we constantly flirt with each other. I’m shy and my self-confidence is sometimes on the low side because I’m a BBW and definitely when I like a guy. Yesterday I told him that I wanted to “hook him...
LooLoo1986
Xper 4 Age: 28 Girls, Would you date someone like me?
I have a muscle condition, Dyslixia and has Low Self confidence.
LemiaOfTheCodes
Xper 7 Age: 38 How can I date (or move past dating) with a poor self image?
I've got a lot of desirable traits women want in a guy, but I have low confidence, low income, and no college degree. I don't want to be a disappointment to every woman I meet, but I know I am. I fear I'm too sad to enjoy
Anonymous
(25-29) If Karen is the name for bossy entitled middle-aged white women, then what would other women's names describe?
Here's what I think: Abigail/Abby - Likely has low self esteem, despite her looks. Likely to date nerds and geeks for the easy morale boost. Allison/Alison - Sarcastic and often times cranky. The type to date bad types...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 How did you build your confidence?
I’ve been bullied by guys since 3rd to 8th grade. And by my family members. My self esteem is really low. I have the worse anxiety ever. But I’m a really fit girl. I just need a sport that would boost my self esteem. I’m...
Anonymous
(18-24) How can I overcome negative thinking in a relationship because of low self-confidence?
So most of my relationships I notice a pattern where I'm thinking that the girl is not interested in me because she is not putting equal amount of effort. I'm usually the one putting a lot of thought and effort in my...
manpower61
Xper 6 Age: 31 Guys, My low self-confidence makes me feel like I'm not very physically attractive. Would you rate my level of physical attractiveness from 1-10?
There's a guy I like whose super fit, personable, funny, handsome, etc. And I'd rate him at a 9-10. But because of my low self-confidence, I don't think I match his level of attractiveness. I've got a great personality,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, Is there such thing as a flirtatious personality?
So there's this guy I've been talking to for about 2 months now. He had a girlfriend when we first talked, and we were just friends starting the new college experience. We have each others snapchat and phone number since...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why don't girls that chase the wrong men just stay single and wait for someone decent?
I see this a lot from girls I know they seem to want a boyfriend any boyfriend no matter how they are treated usually putting up with cheats and liars but they still chase them. Why don't they just stay single and wait...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How do you gain confidence as a young adult?
I'm 22 and I have been suffering from low self esteem since the age of 16. I have been called ugly. But I've also had random strangers call me very pretty. I've also had guys flirt with me. I never really had good luck...
Anonymous
(25-29) I have a crush on an employee. Should I tell her?
I will start by noting we are both single and only a few years difference in age. I have not been in a relationship for a number of years. Through a combination of working overnights and low self esteem and...
Anonymous
(36-45) 