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I don't know why he just popped up in my head, but now I feel like talking about him.

My brother in law is a smooth talking con artist who dyes his hair (old and going grey) makes himself look younger so he can go to college campuses, date teenage white girls (he's black) and convince them into having unprotected sex by saying he'll "pull out" and once she gets pregnant he moves to another state and leaves her to raise the child alone. He has about a dozen children in different states with different mothers. He has a criminal history of theft and is currently in jail for stealing credit cards.
He had no business being with my sister, he's the same age as our mother and he met her when she was 16 (he was 35 at the time) he got her addicted to drugs, got her pregnant and beat the shit out of her. My sister had my Nephew at 17, and he fucked off somewhere else to do the same to more women. My Nephew had to grow up without a father figure. He returned for a couple months a couple years ago, but he was more interested in fucking my sister and he was staying mostly because he was broke and had nowhere else to turn, then he fucked off again to a different state.

I've honestly have picked up dog shit with a plastic bag on my hand that I respect more that I'll ever respect him.

FUCK HIM!!!

I went out with this girl twice a few months ago and we went out several times, and it went well. But she wasn't sure how she felt about being in a relationship and she stopped talking to me.

It's been 4 months and we started talking and went out last night. She explained she was seeing someone else and got into a relationship with him, and he got her addicted to cocaine and some other drugs and she cut off everyone because of how controlling he was.
She spent s month in the hospital after they broke up because of the drugs and she got off them, but moved in with a girl and they had a fling that went sideways.
She moved home and has been working on herself and she said that it meant a lot to her I was checking on her, she did really like me. But she wants to be friends and even friends with benefits for a bit so she can find herself and get right. But she said I'm very different from the people she has dated.
I don't drink or do drugs or have ever done that. She has mainly stuck to smoking cigarettes and drinking, but she wanted to quit smoking but uses it to replace the drugs.
I mean, I do really like her. She's 19 and I'm 23 so there's a huge maturity difference. But she said she likes how different and better she feels with me.
But during her drug phase, she had sex with her friends a lot, and that further concerns me. She is a genuinely good person, but her wild side gets the best of her.

I'm not sure what to do. We went out last night, and it went well. She liked being with me, but at times she was glued to her phone.
But she wants to get together tonight and as much as possible next week because she has the week off.
I'm conflicted.