Am I RIGHT to HATE my BROTHER IN LAW?

[Anonymous]

I don't know why he just popped up in my head, but now I feel like talking about him.

My brother in law is a smooth talking con artist who dyes his hair (old and going grey) makes himself look younger so he can go to college campuses, date teenage white girls (he's black) and convince them into having unprotected sex by saying he'll "pull out" and once she gets pregnant he moves to another state and leaves her to raise the child alone. He has about a dozen children in different states with different mothers. He has a criminal history of theft and is currently in jail for stealing credit cards.
He had no business being with my sister, he's the same age as our mother and he met her when she was 16 (he was 35 at the time) he got her addicted to drugs, got her pregnant and beat the shit out of her. My sister had my Nephew at 17, and he fucked off somewhere else to do the same to more women. My Nephew had to grow up without a father figure. He returned for a couple months a couple years ago, but he was more interested in fucking my sister and he was staying mostly because he was broke and had nowhere else to turn, then he fucked off again to a different state.

I've honestly have picked up dog shit with a plastic bag on my hand that I respect more that I'll ever respect him.

FUCK HIM!!!

You're right to hate him

You're wrong for hating him

Updates

+1 y

I just want to mention that my sister is a bimbo and has been before he came along. Also she's a lot older than me (34) and the first round took place when I was only 5. My sister still deals with drug abuse and abuses food stamps. She's currently with a guy who's also as old as our mother and has been with him on and off for the past 14 years. She will break up with him then fuck some random dudes on Facebook then come back when she needs somewhere to live.

[brennanhuff]

You're right to hate him and to bad you didn't beat him up. But be glad he left your sister and is out of her life. Too many assholes stay with the woman and they get stuck in abusive relationships. She was in an abusive relationship with her, but he's out of state and most likely will stay away from you and her.

[Drowningkingfish]

He's a piece of shit, fuck em. Honestly some of things he does, comes off as irresponsible and childish, trying to escape from his adult responsibilities quivering COWARD!

Keep away fron maniacs like him, they think the earth orbits their trash composed brains.

[MorticiAddams]

What reprehensible behavior! I hope you are a good support system for your sister and her child and help encourage her not to get bogged down in this toxic relationship.

[Asker]

My sister isn't doing well, she lived with her on and off boyfriend in another city while unemployed, but that's mostly her doing. Her son lives here with me and my parents, he's a good kid despite his upbringing, just turned 16 with a 4.0 GPA.

[Moonchild714]

He sounds like Asswipe only good enough to wipe up the shit you referenced. Shit is more Respectable tgan him...

[Moonchild714]

Your Update: calling your sister a Bimbo just dropped you down to his level. Instead of Judging and calling her names why not find out what happened to her as a child? Cause what you just described is Early Childhood PTSD!!!

[Asker]

Oh I didn't mean it that way. I saw some of the men getting the "that's the average woman" vibe from it. The relationship between my sister and I hasn't been good.

[Moonchild714]

Thank you for MHO.

[cloud9vortex1234]

He's Dust, can't you tip off Law Enforcement about him being a deadbeat? In some states, the mother doesn't even have to press charges for the father of her kid (s) to go to jail for being a deadbeat. Somebody like that would be easy to hate.

[lightbulb27]

Placeholder for when i cam type. Time to get motivated rather than wasting energy!

[lightbulb27]

yes and no:) I hate sick people... they go around with their mental sickness and deposit their misery where they go. It would not shock me at all if this... SOB... is in fact trafficking these women when he can and using them to make money. Should have gone to jail for harming <18yr olds. At minimum, he is a plague no different than a parasite except parasites usually stay in one place. This is one of the hardest lessons in life to accept... that the world has some very sick people who do not think like we do and they will destroy and cause misery AND FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT! When you start to understand how human beings function, and you get that, life gets easier to deal with. So much of the problems are occurring because of lack of this understanding, including the lack of training of your sisters to properly identify the character of this person and all the others he has hurt. That is responsibility they must accept and learn! For, there are a bunch of these SOB's walking the planet because our society permits it... sick society... help me fix it!

[lightbulb27]

So yes, you can hate him and for my thinking, put a bullet in him. That's what he has earned... sadly, it's not legal, but should be. Let the hate be fuel to produce change.
The flip side of this is to have compassion... this is a bitch to achieve without a grounding in Christ and understanding of the human condition. This person is sick, should not be free in society and needs help, possibly locked up forever as the solution to this is a choice for him to address his own mental/emotional illness and change. Some people don't want to. He was screwed up at a young age... who knows what his issues really are, and he is going around and hurting people (apparently white people). There are too many black people going around and doing to white people what they think white people did to them years ago, and are getting away with it. It isn't just races, but culture, and wounds. needs stopped... all of it no matter color.

[lightbulb27]

The compassion part is recognizing the broken state of humanity and having the confidence and power to say... these people are sick and need put away and get the emotional help and healing they need to function in society, else they stay there. I know a guy who was in prison for a LONG time for good reason and he was healed eventually of his ills. He is free now, and he's not going to hurt others. But that's due to his heart changing, and that is essential.

[lightbulb27]

I would not allow my little sisters to go to daycare or public school, certainly with a lot of poorly disciplined kids of mixed races. That's a recipe for disaster, but ture of most schools. I wouldn't let them sit in church daycare without my parenting them. People get complacent and don't understand what is going on in the world. They live in lala land and their children are paying the price. As the Bible says, "the devil is going around like a Roaring Lion". That's a fact and as bad as ever. You must protect those who are weaker (often females, but people who lack sufficient emotional and physical power to protect themselves) from those who are wicked. That is where your energy of hate can be dissipated, also in developing your skills to confront and deal with such people. In effect, becomming a protector, which is what males are supposed to be.

[lightbulb27]

Look at the sickness...
www.10tv.com/.../new-details-emerge-murder-rachael-anderson

I'm not blaming black people here, but there is a dynamic playing out. We... people... have to embrace there are serious human problems and confront them, deal with them as they are in reality, to avoid the innocent paying the price. That means healthy, empathetic, caring people... rising up in power to control what are unfeeling, sciopathic, narccissistic, controlling, abusive people... no matter the color. Anything else is submission to and thus ensures they continue damaging your loved ones and society at large. It's a spiritual war.

[lightbulb27]

Per your update, this is a case where the Bible is correct to some extent anyways. Forgive your sister, she has been abused and is traumatized, before you even really knew her and now she's functioning out of those wounds. It is no different than saying someone limps because they have a broken leg, just in this case, it's her emotions/mind/body rather than just her body.

Guide your sister into trauma therapy.

[SamirahD22]

🤣😭😭😭😭 the picture.. she needs to wisen up and leave his ass. This is not your responsibility.

[DiscomfortZone]

Kill him. Very, very slowly. I'll give you an alibi.

[andrermm]

Your sister fked him again? Hahaha Wtf is this story

[Asker]

Well, my sister is a bit of a bimbo, that's probably why she got abused in the first place

[BroodyRuby]

He is literal garbage. I would hate him too

[Shamalien]

U shud knock his lights out

[Asker]

I want to, but he's 2,400 miles away and I don't feel like getting a felony over his bitch ass

[Shamalien]

Well then u shud stick a wrench in his plans. Tip the girls off

[77gnat]

This totally seems real. I think all he needs is a hug from you.

[Joker_]

You're right to hate your fictional brother in law

[Asker]

Nah, he's real

[Joker_]

Sure