Search Results: shy when it comes to approaching guys

I am not attractive, have low self-esteem because of it. I have never been approached by a guy in 23 years of my life?

And now I have almost become emotionally closed off. I have even stopped having silly crushes. Its like my heart has created this strong impermeable layer around it and won't let anyone in. I don't feel worthy of male...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can a guy go from having decent conversations with you to nervously giving you short replies?

Me and this guy from college had decent conversations. We took turns initiating and talked for a good amount of time for being two shy people. He did seem a little more nervous around me than other people but that didn’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to approach a shy guy you like?

I'm not so outgoing myself when it comes to crushes and all but I'm not shy at all and I speak up in everyday discussions so I guess I can sometimes even be overwhelming. But I like this really shy guy and I dont know how...

ToxicKisses

Xper 5 Age: 25

He notices, but he does nothing. Guys, what would this likely mean?

There's a guy I like at my gym. I'm very shy and anxious around guys I like, so thus far I've tried to drop pretty much any hint I can possibly think of to show him that I'm interested without having to go up to him...

Diskid

Xper 5 Age: 39

Shy Guy & Shy Girl; how to talk and conversation starters?

I'm an introvert and very shy. I don't feel comfortable going up to anyone I don't know and starting conversations (unless its buying groceries, ordering dinner, etc). There's a guy I like at my gym and I think he might...

Diskid

Xper 5 Age: 39

How do you make yourself more approachable (specificially to the opposite sex)?

I'm afraid others may view me as not being very approachable. I've always been fairly shy, and when it comes to men I get anxious around those I like and have trouble making eye contact if I'm close to them (across the...

Diskid

Xper 5 Age: 39

Fashion & Beauty

Why I Think the Saying "Don't Judge a Book By it's Cover" is Stupid

The saying "Don't judge the book by it's over" means all good things - I'm well aware of that! - however I think it shouldn't be seen as shallow to judge a book by it's cover. This saying is so popular that if you don't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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How to approach a white charming girl?

I am single guy and wanna seek a white charming girl and how to approach them and while thinking about them i am worrying and feeling shy and my heart starts beating very fast and also im dark in colour and will they...

Vinny7764

Xper 2 Age: 30

Should I approach a guy instead of waiting for him to approach me?

So, I have a little crush on this guy in my class. He looks decent, but like how he carries himself, he dresses nice kind of professional but still casual. So I like his swag. He stares at me, I stare at him & so feel...

turrtlex_x

Xper 5 Age: 29

Is asking a mutual friend to hook us up a stupid idea?

There is this guy at work that I had my eyes on for couple of months. We work in different departments and we never talked to each other. I have my own group from work that I go to breaks with, and he has his. One female...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it possible for a girl to be attracted to a guy but never let him know?

I’m relatively shy when it comes to this and I was looking at a couple girls in my class today and it got me thinking could they be attracted to a guy but have the expectation that he approach otherwise nothing will happen

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Casino Beverage Servers?

So I'm in this rural area with a relatively small casino (600 slots) and I'm a weekly visitor. I saw one of the beverage servers on Tinder a while back, and she's in there almost every time I am. I find her very...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I improve relations with women?

Hello to all, I would like to inform you that I am actually 23 years old and I am facing difficulties when it comes to women. In fact, I do have some issues to talk to them (even ti get close to them), whereas...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am autistic when it comes to girls. Why would she like me?

There's this really cute girl that seems to like me. We haven't talked but I am 90% certain she likes my appearance. Like she is very nervous when I am around and stares at me for seconds until I look at her. Now the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

There's this really cute girl that seems to like me. We haven't talked but I am 90% certain she likes my appearance. Like she is very nervous when I am around and stares at me for

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The Real Reason Why Men Are Single

For the record, I am no longer single; however, I know what it is like to be a single man. For that reason, I decided to write a Take on some reasons why men stay single for a long time. Before I continue this Take, let...

Anonymous

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Girl's Behavior

Alright.. I have a question?

I was at Wal-Mart not too long ago and I caught glimpses of girls looking at me but I didn't say anything. When I go up to the counter to check-out a girl comes up to me. She's pretty close but doesn't look at me or...

TriTree

Xper 6 Age: 32

Having issues with approaching girls for some reason?

Questions for both male & female. So, here's the situation. I have been told I am a really attractive guy. I'm also in really good shape I've been working out for 5 years. However.. I am short. 5'7 Anyways to the point-...

Aphotic81

Xper 4 Age: 26

Can a guy feel like you just want to use him when he actually wants a relationship?

So with the guy I like, we met at college. He helped students like myself with assignments and homework. Over time I noticed his signs of interest. The major one being him wanting to help me when I never asked or an...

TsundereMatrix

Influencer Age: 33