Should I approach a guy instead of waiting for him to approach me?

[turrtlex_x]

So, I have a little crush on this guy in my class. He looks decent, but like how he carries himself, he dresses nice kind of professional but still casual. So I like his swag. He stares at me, I stare at him & so feel like we gotta this vibe between us. I want to approach him, bc I don't want to regret not pursuing it. I feel like guys always stare at me & nothing ever comes of it. So I concluded I'm unapproachable. I'm shy but I still want to check it out & see if it's worth it.
How should I go about this?

[That-Guy]

Well, "i'm shy" is tough as shyness is often mistaken for bitchy and cold.

Advice: Ask him about the class and once he answer, thank him and "see ya next class," Keep these little interactions going to let him know "hey, it's okay for you to talk to me."
- Then if.. you feel like closing him..
-- bring up general activities outside of class... see if he invites you out.

There's going to be some advice from guys here "ya, ask him out!"

- no, let him pursue you. Your job is to let him know it's safe and for him to be the hunter.
-- if he doesn't pursue you, he's a puss bag and you don't want him anyways.

[turrtlex_x]

Thanks appreciate the advice, i definitely was going to put a strong foot forward.

[That-Guy]

Good call, also since this feels new in terms of your venture in flirting. Just know that if this doesn't lead to the result you're looking for, don't get discouraged!

By working on your "hey it's okay to approach me skills," it will only get easier, you'll get better and will be a great skill to have while you date.

Another bit to remember, these guys (i assume because of college) are going to be just as young and inexperienced. They are also just fumbling through and mis-interpeting signals because the women themselves don't know what the fuck their signals are saying as well.
- so have fun :D

[Christpaquin]

You don't need to ask for it directly you can simply talk with him and show that you are interested.

Its pretty easy.

You look awesome today
You touch him
Etc..

[cupidkisses]

You should approach

[InvisibleTsunami]

If he's the kind of guy that would be turned off by that, you don't want to be with him anyway. If we are really supposed to be equal, there is no reason why you can't go up and ask him out. Him in his head: "Whoah this girl really likes me." Though, if you do this, at least split the bill on the date because YOU asked HIM. The initiator should always chip in somehow. But yeah, a down-to-earth girl that is confident is a major turn on.

[Hungry_Shark]

Don't approach him,
The best you can do - put yourself in a position where only you and him are alone and then give him eye contact so that he can approach you.

If you give him eye contact in middle of class, nothing can happen obviously.

[5x9BOB]

Flirt with him. If he stares at you tease him a little. Flirt a little leave me hanging see what happens.

[solidoxe]

Walk up to him and say hi after class. You could probably just be blunt and straight up ask him if he likes you. Good luck

[john1714]

Do it he might just be nervous and it sucks always being expected to make the first move.

[NightOwl_23]

Go for it! You might want to try flirting with him first to see if he's interested, guys dont get hints we are oblivious when it comes to something like that.

[Myquietsoul]

Yes, you should. If you don't go for what you want, you"ll miss out on great people and opportunities

[kinggeorge007]

Go for it... It's better asking out than regretting later...

[Anonymous]

I don't care what anyone says, when girls approach, they take the lead and give off masculine energy. If the guy isn't approaching then he's just not that into you.

[Ave737]

Go for it. Nothing terrible can come from being confident. If he's staring at you on a consistent basis, then you're clearly not too hard on the eyes. You can do it!

[JKUSMC]

You only live once, go for it... at worst, he'll not be interested, but there are lots of men in the world.

[Thorne1221]

If he's not doing it yet Then you gotta push him to do it

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/OGuTfQAMONo

[stove13]

Aproach today men need becareful sense woman cry wolf a lot now..

[android121]

It depends if he likes u wait but if he dosent you approach

[noesbueno]

Why not, being upfront is the best way.

[Willyboy54]

Go girl. Its a major turn on if a girl approaches.

[glacier1600]

Yes sometimes guys don't get the hints.

[LastNightmare]

why not.. give it a try hon

[Nice222]

If you like him go for it.