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Am I overthinking this? After all, the legal age of consent's 16 here, so it should be alright, right? There shouldn't really be anything wrong with it, not from a legal perspective anyway. And I'd be orchestrating this in the youngest locality in the UK (Slough), one which doesn't have a university any more, no more clubs or bars- there's literally nowhere in town for young people like us to socialize. But still, I dunno; of course, to avoid any potential liability issues, it'd be safer to go with '18-25', and leave it at that. But the thing is that, like I said, the university which used to be in our town relocated more than a decade ago now; and the overwhelming majority of single girls in town who're even remotely attractive, and possess the slightest bit of intelligence, are sixth-formers or college students, in the 16-18 age range. And without them, I know full well from the few singles events and single groups I've given a try in this town that it'd be a total sausage-fest- there's very little chance it'd be successful without "lowering the bar", so to speak. So, what d'you reckon? Should I go with the '16-25' age range? The '18-25 (or 18-29)' age range? Or just abandon the notion of orchestrating a dating event (or several) entirely, and just do what every other Indian guy here (who doesn't want to get involved in the criminal sex trafficking rings, that is) winds up doing if they're single for long enough- i. e, cave into to the pressure, and accept my fate, along with the arranged marriage my family's oh-so-desperate to line up for me?

So I asked this girl out early in the week, and she gave me the dreaded "maybe." She said that she will have to see. We've already gone out a couple of times, and even after she said she wanted me to meet her girlfriends, and how she felt blessed to have me in her life; she somewhat inexplicably said that there had been another guy she was talking to, and wanted to pursue things with him. She and I have always been respectful, super straight up with each other, and I only knew her for a month, so it's not like there is any weirdness or hard feelings about it.

He shot her down.

Now, even though she had created some distance before, I figured that I would ask her out again to see what happened, and that's when she gave me the maybe. There are very good, perfectly legitimate reasons that she would have to see if she could get dinner, as she's a single mom. I asked her out on Wednesday, and I didn't hear from her on Thursday or Friday, so I assumed, of course, that she wasn't interested. That leads me to the situation of concern.

Last night, or Friday night, at 3am, when I'm at work (and she knows this), she publicly posted a bunch of super sexy selfies in her bed. I don't know if she was out clubbing last night (she usually posts group selfies with her girlfriends when she goes out), but she posted the pictures on her story, saying that she was having trouble sleeping. I responded to the post and asked her if something was on her mind (kind of as a joke, kind of curious) and she said "no lol I just needed an excuse to post 😂".

I know that the fact she posted those pics publicly means that they weren't for me, but posting at 3 and 4am is unusual for her, and she knows that I'm up and about at that time of day. I can't help but wonder if she might have been inviting me to make a move without actually inviting me.

Am I crazy?