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Why are white male Black woman relationships respected more than white girl, black guy relationships? And why does everyone disrespect any relationships that Black guys are in. Black girls have just as much choice as any other girls and most of them decided to date jerks. Skipping over most black nerds and any other guys that don't fit in stereotypes. I really don't care about that I just don't understand why one type of interracial relationship is treated better. As a black guy I have had times where I could have ended up with nice girls and would have treated them right but their families would not let me. It even got so bad a girl was beaten by her parents then rewarded with a car when she told her parents we stop being friends. The lie is that black men don't treat are women right when the reality is that black women don't give different guys a chance or can't adapt to a different type of black guy ( if you see a black nerd girl she will most likely not date a black guy unless he meet worldly standards). I got to the point where I gave up on them because I know who I am and have self respect. But I don't understand why I get so much crap. And the fact that The relationships are treated different have a long term effect on how the relationships are treated. Giving certain relationships no support and no chance.

As a Latino man born and raised in the US, I honestly am a little annoyed of how women have to lump me into the same group as many other Latino/Hispanic men who happened to have been abusive and controlling towards the women they've been in relationships with. All of the sudden, because of a small, handful of other Latino/Hispanic men's actions and their treatment of women, I have to get treated like crap and not treated as an individual, no matter how much of a nice guy I am to people and how much of gentleman I am to women.

It's stupid. I have dated a women women (mostly Latina and white women) and all have taken me for granted because of their past experiences with Latino men. Everything always has to be only about them and never about how I feel or never reciprocating to me. I just got tired of relationships with women because of this reason and just decide to spend more time with my friends and cousins and read my comic books to cool off. It seems to be a sad reality that women don't appreciate good and generous Latino men and think everything always has to revolve around women themselves and about treating men (especially men of my ethnic group) like their financial and emotional ATM machines to leech off of.

Sorry if I come off as bitter and a little sexist but this is just my negative experience with women I've dated. If only I can find one Latina or white woman (or any woman for that matter) to appreciate me and treat me well in return while I do my best to treat women well with respect.