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I met up with this Christian guy after he asked me out to get coffee on an online dating site. Since he was pretty far away I came up with the idea of going to the beach/boardwalk which was a halfway point for us to which he agreed. I only mention that he is Christian because he's very much about abstinence and the whole nine yards. Doesn't use profanity. And was such a gentleman. I absolutely really liked it. But he was very respectful. Maybe a bit too much? He bought me ice cream and paid for the arcade games and what not. It was fun!! (Not the part I'm complaining about) But even when we were on the rides... like the one when you spin around. There's a point that the ride kept sliding him to me and he held on to dear life and he said "I swear I'm not trying to make a move !" and I laughed it off. Anyways we made a sand castle. He took pictures of us. And then after the day was over he dropped me off at my car. We hugged and I left. He texted me later on asking me for my last name. Then he added me on Facebook and tagged me in a photo with the caption "made a sandcastle today with Kelly! Thank you for the evening!" He texted me. I texted him back thanking him for the day and that I hoped he had a good time as well. He said he had a blast and told me he was going to sleep so he said goodnight.
... that's it. No "let's go out again.." None of that!
So.. did he friend zone me? Or is it just him being very proper? Is there no chance of a second date? This all happened yesterday and I'm bummed because I liked our date :/ and it seemed as though we had a good time !!
Any thoughts?

I didn't save myself for marriage...but I do believe had I waited six more months I would have at least saved myself for the man I am planning to marry now. I was also never taught abstinence by mother neither through talking, example or any even real mentioning of it in general....I don't think she believed it was realistic. My man's sister just turned 26 and is abstinent and she is one of the most amazing people I know. She radiates self worth, self confidence and resilience and is honestly full of so much wisdom and I learned this about her very shortly after meeting her. In my opinion being abstinent is one of the things that has led her to the insights and experiences that have partially contributed to her great character. Now again I didn't save myself for marriage, so I'm not dissing anyone who hasn't, but I will say...the best people I know are close to God and waited for marriage or only had sex with one or two people prior to marriage and are so powerfully willed. I am just wondering if anyone else has waited, met similar people, felt the same way I am feeling about past boyfriends, other abstinent women and the idea of abstinence in general...would love to hear what you think!