What to do if your crush has had oral sex?

[Anonymous]

So i like this girl a lot but the thing is i am abstinence (sex at marriage) and i really like the girl. It is just lets say we are dating and I am kissing her. My mind will be that this girl had another guys dick in it. And that maybe it wasn't just one guy. Should i ask her out? Even if she has sucked dick before? I mean i love this girl. Its just the fact that she had another guys dick in it that bothers me.

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I don't know for sure if she does suck dick tho. But when someone asks her she avoids the question./ignores it.

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And someone told me she has.

[kambo_trick3y]

I don't know why people are asking him to grow up.

It's not like he's being a hypocrite. He's not asking for anything he doesn't apply to himself first. Whether he's going to FIND someone with his strict views on sex, that's another story.

But if anything, in my opinion, it's you people on GAG who need to grow up because you have trouble accepting someone's conservative view on sex.

[Asker]

Thank you kambo for backing me up. by the way happy new years.

[kambo_trick3y]

I'm gonna say something that most people in society will disagree with, but you know what? Fuck society. Half the time they don't even know what the fuck is good for them anyway.

Most people are telling you to drop it, and you know what I say? You don't need to drop jack shit. At the end of the day, you are not entitled, by ANYONE, to give your love and affection to someone you don't see as worthy. NO ONE defines those values for you, YOU do.

Most people may not agree with your standards, hell, sticking to it may even leave you single for a long time, but in my opinion, your standards are what comprise YOU. And there is nothing wrong with holding those same standards to your life partner, someone who, in your eyes, is supposed to be your EQUAL.

Fuck what most people say. You do you son. That's all that matters at the end of the day.

[kambo_trick3y]

Yeah, Happy New Years to you too son.

[Longblackveil]

Agreed with kambo.

Accepting that another girl has done things you don't agree with has nothing to do with being "grown up"

[cavmanier]

I was going to say something similar. I agree. You have the right to not want a girl that has done this and there are some girls out there that way.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You need to get over a girl's sexual past. Sooner than later.

[blunttalker]

What does that say about her? That she's a mean person? selfish? disgusting? uncaring?
Ignore those thoughts. You know the girl, you love her, why do you let this ruin what you have with her?
The past is in the past, think of the present, think about living it now with her in your own way. I think it's totally fine if she did it, she was just living life.

[Aceroset4]

As everyone has said, you have to get over that. But just to be clear, if you start getting involved with a girl like that, she's probably going to want that kind of stuff in a relationship. So unless you're okay with breaking your abstinence, I recommend finding a girl who shares your same beliefs.

[Asker]

if things do get serious i will make sure that we don't do anything. If she likes me for who i am she would accept the fact. If she doesn't then i guess i would have to just get over her.

[whattothink]

So if you met a girl that was not a virgin you would drop her even if she was perfect just because of her past?

[jacquesvol]

'maybe'
Or maybe not.
She's the only one who can tell.

But is it that important to you?

The important is that she's healthy now:

www.rightdiagnosis.com/.../...oral_sex_as_well.htm

aids.about.com/od/childrenteens/a/teensoral.htm

Best wishes for 2015 !

[Asker]

I don't know if you were joking about that she is healthier now. Also have a amazing New years.

[jacquesvol]

I didn't write 'healthier'. I wrote 'healthy'. And no, I wasn't joking.

Slight difference.

[Asker]

Wait you gave me links showing how oral sex can give you std. How is that healthier

[Asker]

healthy* not healthier

[jacquesvol]

It's NO JOKE: for some some STDs there's no cure: herpes, aids for instance. Some are cured with difficulty, like gonorrhea. Others are easily cured.

And one CAN get them possibly from giving/receiving oral. It happens to more persons than people think: www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/100302.php

[jacquesvol]

Chlamydia can be cured but is dangerous if it isn't detected: www.webmd.com/.../oral-sex-cause-throat-cancer-rise

[JackKerouac77]

Time to go live in the woods and drop out of society. Perhaps a hottie will stumble upon your cabin.

Meet me in Montana!

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[Red_Dragon]

Bruh she's done cleaned her mouth long since then bro.

She came out of someone's vagina when she was born too. Big deal. LOL

You're over worrying.

[A-guy---I-suppose]

Why would it matter? At least she's not a complete amateur at head :)

[kheserthorpe]

Most girls gave either sucked dick before, or never will suck dick.

I know which id pick.

[Asker]

Hence most girls. Not all girls. But slowly and surely i might get over it.

[Ihav2fart]

lmao get over it man... caring about a girls past is gonna mind fuck you forever.

[vjreejr]

Your best friend is going to Mister Handy for a loooooong time.

[Sammykayy]

Everybody has a past. If your really can't get over it than maybe you don't care about her as much as you think you do

[Prof_Don]

To be blunt... you're gonna have to stop being a little bitch and get over that.

Grow the fuck up.

[Error_204]

I'd let it go. Forever.

[DontDropIt]

I think you need to grow up lol

[insanelyme]

Someone needs to grow up.

[Anonymous]

THIS JUST MADE LAUGH SO HARD, ARE YOU FR?