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I was watching an episode of Will & Grace when a scene came on. One of Grace's boyfriends dumped her because they thought she had too close of a friendship with her bestie Will, even though Will is actually gay and has no interest in women. If you never watched the show, Will and Grace lived together through most of it. But would you feel uncomfortable if your spouse/SO always hung out and talked with someone who was the opposite sex BUT was also gay?

This question is for women to answer, as well, if you're boyfriend's best friend was a lesbian, would it bother you? I'm not asking if them BEING gay/lesbian is a problem, but that their best friend is a member of the opposite sex. That means they go out all the time, go shopping, talk on the phone, text, SnapChat, gossip, and hang out all of the time without you around. Basically, if they aren't with you, they are with them. Would this annoy you?

I only ask because we talk about spouses/SO/partners not going out with members of the opposite sex one on one that they aren't in a relationship with, but would their sexual orientation make you feel any different? And if so, why?

Just in case you still don't understand the question:

Example 1: John's girlfriend Susan has a best friend named Gary, but Gary is gay.

Example 2: Kristy's boyfriend James has a best friend Maggie, but Maggie is a lesbian.

So I work at a local restaurant, Im a waitress and he's a bartender. He's 23. The thing is he's on the quieter side, he isn't that outgoing and prefers to talk to people he knows well which is a small group. From when I started working we clicked right away, he's said things like I'm his favourite waitress, and I'm the best part of the weekend. He doesn't show affection to many people yet will always hug me when alone, and sometimes pick me up in the air. The thing is he has a girlfriend but the only things he comments on are her annoying habits and one time he mentioned she asked who I was and he didn't see why she seemed jealous. (Must have seen a message) and if ever his girlfriend posts cute statuses on his timeline he never likes them or comments back, but he will always like my posts regardless of what they are. If ever other bartenders make jokes/ commenting we'd be good together he either says he feels awkward or seems genuinely confused why they'd say that. I can't tell whether he may have feelings for me and not want to acknowledge them? Or whether perhaps I'm just a good friend to him? Opinions?

Alright, here it goes, I have a big lesbian crush on my best friend. I told her and she said she likes me back, but when I asked her to be my girlfriend she said she just wants to be friends which I can understand because she hasn't taken on the title of lesbian or bisexual, whatever, like I have. But she told me she doesn't like me any more, but at the same time, gives signals that she likes me. We've kissed before and I felt like I had overdosed on happy pills for the rest of the day (we've also kissed after that) She acts really annoyed at me sometimes because I have low self esteem and seems to get really mad at me for almost anything and for awhile has refused to let me touch her. But I was brave a few days ago and decided to kiss her cheek, she squealed and smiled so I take that as she liked it. Also, even though I was annoying her, she and a few of our friends went to play four square in the parking lot and since there were 5 of us, the person not in a square had to stand in the middle and we'd attack them with the ball. So when it was my turn, she yelled "No one hit her!" pretty angriliy, so no one did despite her being annoyed at me earlier. Then I had a panic attack and she attacked like she didn't care but I had a panic attack a few weeks ago at a party and she held me and let me listen to music and slapped the three guys who had scared me. I asked her if she'd rather me do the V thing with my tongue (She hates it) or kiss her when I want to freak her out. She said she'd rather I kiss her. Sometimes she's very distant and aloof, she doesn't get very close to me and yells at me, then others she'll hug me and be super sweet in the way you'd be to your girlfriend or boyfriend. I'm getting a heck of a lot of mixed signals here, can someone please help?