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Recently dec 2021, he asked me - "Does it feel like you're never gonna find nothing better? Does it feel like you were missing out on something because I loved you different?" And i told him that i love him with all his flaws and how i would never leave him like my ex did coz I don't wanna hurt him and coz I love him. He on the very same day, ordered me to meet his mom which i did ( this happened 1-2 days back for the first time ) and this guy - I don't know never calls me or picks up my calls after our 3rd break up ( he and his mom called me all day in Nov 2021 and patch up with me saying he loves me). It's been 2 years now. His mom dad live 1 km away from my home while he is in NZ trying for PR visa coz he studied masters there so he wanna settle there. I keep asking him if he loves me and he keeps saying that he does... he said me he would call me but he rarely does. He has two jobs and has called me only after i blocked him after blocking him post breaking up with him thrice, in this 2 years of long distance relationship.

Now we both had slept with others but him while being in a relationship with me and me after breaking up with him thrice. (I always broke up.. that too 3-4 times by now). Recently dec 2021, he asked me - "Does it feel like you're never gonna find nothing better? Does it feel like you were missing out on something because I loved you different?" And i told him that i love him with all his flaws and how i would never leave him like my ex did coz I don't wanna hurt him and coz I love him. He on the very same day, ordered me to meet his mom ( this happened 1-2 days back for the first time ) and this guy - I don't know never calls me or picks up my calls after our 3rd break up ( he and his mom called me all day in Nov 2021 and patch up with me saying he loves me). It's been 2 years now. His mom dad live 1 km away from my home while he is in NZ trying for PR visa coz he studied masters there so he wanna settle there. I keep asking him if he loves me and he keeps saying that he does... he said me he would call me but he rarely does. He has two jobs and has called me only after i blocked him after blocking him post breaking up with him thrice, in this 2 years.

So i am kinda shocked and scared that many people on gag are ok with hating, threating, insulting etc feminists.
For example I have seen a question about the "hypocrisy towards men" that insults towards men are accepted by the so called feminists and everyone agrees with it but at the same time people in the commentsection insulted feminists which is extremely hypocritical to me. Of course men should not be insulted or get hated by crazy feminists but if you hate/insult women for being feminist then you are a hypocrite.

I know some girls like me on gag who got deaths threats, insults, and got harrassed, spammed, stalked, and our opinions got systematically disliked just because some incels thought we are feminist or just because we had some "feminist opnions".

This is why i made my account private and blocked many people. Despite blocking these people, some incels create fake accounts to harrass me again. I was even thinking about going to police. Because of this i also try to make my old (and new) posts of mine private and try to be more inactive which is difficult for me because i really like some people on gag but it harms my mental health.

(Note: i am sorry if the question offends anyone and i may delete it if it offends many people)

The only 4 people I'm receving that type of love without any of them asking for anything in return other than my happiness and health; my mother, my father, my maternal grandma and my younger brother. No one else after that.

My ex boyfriend used to rub it in my face how he loves me unconditionally and will always be there for me. However, he used to give me too many ultimatums. Basically if I didn't became a good chef (didn't cook creative meals all the time) and a businesswoman in a year or so, he would dump me and block me forever. He wanted part of my income.

He also put conditions not to give any money to my grandma nor speak to my aunt or else he wouldn't ever speak to me again. This contradicts the very definition of unconditional love. This means loving without waiting for anything in return and no ultimatums.

I ended up blocking him myself and lied about my real earnings. He sure got upset that I withheld that information. Did he fought for his so called ''love''? Nope. When I blocked him, he treated me like I don't exist. Honestly I think there is no such things as unconditional love in a relationship. It's not healthy. If you can block them any time, replace them with someone else and forget them, you never loved them unconditionally.