How do I forget thinking about him?

[Anonymous]

This guy led me on, gave me false hopes until I accepted him.
He made me feel like the most special girl.

Now he stopped calling, texting or even checking on me!

If I text him or call him, he just gives excuses that he's busy but I saw him partying or simply doing nothing many times.

It feels like I don't exist until he needs my company again.

How do I genuinely forget him and lead a mentally normal life?
Apart from blocking, something that can effectively help me move on?

[Lori11]

Something similar happened to me. Remind yourself that you were fine before he came, and that you're not here to give and not receive. You might like him, but you don't need him. It seems like he's the one who eventually needs you, when he comes back you'll choose what to do about it. It's hard to take someone out of your head, focus more on studying, hobbies, friends, and maybe even flirt with someone.
Also, when we have a crush, we tend to focus on the good side of the person only; find his flaws, things you don't like about him. You need time and to ignore him, that's all.

[Asker]

Thanks bud. You're right, he NEEDS me in terms of career advancement and in his boredom. There's a difference between wanting and needing someone, if he loved me, he would have wanted me, NOT NEEDED ME.
I visualized me and him having ugly fights because I'm as mean as I'm nice. My mean side comes out whenever I feel ignored, disrespected and used.

[anon2192]

Remember one thing it's all a matter of time, fastforward a few months, feelings will reduce significantly. Till then, involve yourself in your hobbies, spend time with your friends and family, make new friends, spend time travelling, binge web/TV series.
Basically enjoy your own company whether he comes back to you or not will become inconsequential. Don't try to think why he did that, it is a waste of time, there might be several reasons like he might not be feeling good at the moment, or he just used you as validation or he might just be plain bored
Hope this helps :))

[boggboss]

If your not prepared to block him u pretty much can't as you would need to be able to ignore him but u clearly can fo that otherwise u wouldn't be asking

[Wise4myage]

Find a new guy to replace him.