Search Results: getting over ex boyfriend

Are these controlling behaviors?

My boyfriend (he's from Canada) and I met years ago. We dated for 10 months and were very intimate. However we've been in a long-distance relationship since 2016. He's been getting weird and would you consider these...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Raise or fold the second time around?

I met this girl at a hospital, we were stuck there together for like a month. She made it obvious she liked me. Wrote me letters, sang me songs, always super nervous but she always wanted to sit and talk with me....

Lost_in_the_Woods

Xper 7 Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Ex's bahavior after breakup, need advice?

He dumped me 10/1 after 3.5 years, flipped a switch overnight. Said he needed to work on himself and couldnt be in a relationship right now. didn't feel loved etc. He 1st contacted me a week after it happened, was kinda...

SiriusA1V

Xper 4 Age: 45

How to get out of a toxic relationship?

I was so crazy in love with my ex boyfriend that I ignored every red flag. We only dated for about 7 months and then he decided he didn't want to date me anymore out of the blue. Fast forward three months, we have been in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Religion & Spirituality

A very serious lesson that isn’t so obvious to most

I believe Jesus taught that bad deeds lead to bad ultimate results and good deeds leads to good final outcomes. Bad deeds cannot lead to good results because the person suffers for what they did. Good deeds cannot lead to...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

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Should I leave?

I was living in NC and I moved to NY with boyfriend. I got pregnant and we were going through a lot of arguments. He didn't like that I would have mood swings. He wanted me to be a certain way all the time. So I went back...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Please give me your thoughts, I really want to know what this means?

What does this mean? ( A boy I used to date for three months- we've been friends for 3 years- and are still on good terms) I went to this restaurant to pick up some food one day, and I was getting in my car, I look over...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Felt a major disconnect while with my boyfriend. Should I be worried?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. Today I felt very disconnected while with him. Over the past few weeks my anxiety levels have reached an all time high and I can’t explain why. I keep over...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

What are your thoughts?

So there's this guy Thomas whom I've known for a while who's made it very clear that he wants to sleep with me. He's flirted with me and he's sent pics. Most of the time it's all he thinks about when talking to me. We...

Anonymous

(18-24)

So there's this guy Thomas whom I've known for a while who's made it very clear that he wants to sleep with me. He's flirted with me and he's sent pics. Most of the time it's all he

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What I Learned From My 9 Ex-Girlfriends (Part 1)

So, me being the inferior F-grade height I am, combined with being ugly, dark-skinned, having hypothyroidism (thus effortlessly overweight), as well as having had a Precious Puberty, which lead to at least two of these...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Getting an ex back. Can you break up to make up?

My boyfriend recently broke up with me. We had been bickering a lot lately mostly due to lack of communication. We’ve been in a relationship for over a year and live together. Aside from the arguments there were no other...

Anon_822

Xper 3 Age: 36

I just want to let this out cuz it's been bothering me. What should I do?

Everytime i get stressed out by my boyfriend, i sometimes think about "what if i chose my ex over him a long time ago, would things be different?" I hate these thoughts but it visits everytime im hella stressed out about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I want to be friends with my ex but it’s still hard. Is this normal & is there anything I can do?

Hi guys, my boyfriend and I broke up several months ago. I was invited back to our friend group we had, and I really do want to be friends & hang with them, so I’m trying to be positive & trying really hard. It’s still...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to set boundaries when girlfriend's ex comes up in our relationship? Am I just being insecure? Is she really serious about me?

My girlfriend and I are quite serious - we were both previously in long relationships (five and six years) and we have both been outside of those relationships for about two years... She talked about her ex freely as...

spxtrader

Xper 3 Age: 32

Was my ex wrong for breaking my trust or was I wrong for triggering his abandonment trauma?

my ex boyfriend hated to accept blame and he had abandonment issues. I didn’t know anything about that because I had never internalized the reasons behind my past abandonment to be “my fault”. But he actually pushed me to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was I wrong to confront my ex friend for flirting with my ex boyfriend?

I Was at a party where my ex was there and my ex friend was there as well. It was the jest time I saw either of them in a long time. This old friend was somebody I treated like a sister and they stopped talking to me for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm never good enough?

I was at my grandpas funeral a few years ago. My sister came back (the really beautiful sister I have) she was dressed up all dolled up in heels and everything, but so was I. My great aunt came in the door and she's...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend is dishonest about his attraction towards other women. Am I being silly for making this an issue?

I’m getting the feeling that my boyfriend is being dishonest about his attraction/interest in other women, and it’s making me feel like he has something to hide. It started with his ex girlfriend. Me, my boyfriend,...

Anonymous

(30-35)