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So my relationship with my boyfriend has been having ups and downs. We’ve been together for more than 2 years now and we’ve been having a lot of problems that can’t be fixed. He is a very forgiving guy and an honest one, he’s not thise type of guys that would cheat or do anything bad. Most of the problems has to do with me being upset all the time for stupid reasons and disrespecting him sometimes. (Ex; not liking his family, interrupting him, showing signs of clinging, and Me getting upset all the time when he mentions his 4 year old half-brother who hasent done anything to me. He dosent like the fact that i hate his family because he has no full siblings and both his mom and dad have kids from different people) he has 5 other half siblings with different parents) So he decided (oct 16) that he has had enough of giving me chances and WE NEED A BREAK. I was the one who brought up going on a break instead of him having to break up with me. So he finally decided that were going on a break for real this time. He Decided on a 3 week break and tolled me that this break is my last chance he is giving me to fix my issues. He decided on 3 weeks of no talking and seeing eachother and after the break (nov 7) will be the deciding factor if we will continue our relationship. He is giving me this time to think about the problems and to see if this will prove that i will change and show him that i will learn to accept his family and show more respect to him. I feel like it’s forever but he said that it’s not a long break and it will be beneficial for us if we decide to continue our relation and save our future in the very long run. I’m thinking this will sorta help us, but not communicating during this break is making me very sad. He said he will contact me on the ending date but I don't know what he will decide on. I really miss talking to him rn. What do you think?

Me and this guy dated for 5 months everything is going good we waited to have sex. He treats me good. Were taking things slow. But he and the ex wife had split up after 17 years together and were really in a bad place.
We have gotten closer and opened up about what he has done wrong and his faults. We know eachother past good bad whats hurt us whats made us who we are. He is kind and gental with me shows affection. I meet his family spent Christmas with them. And after Christmas he pulled away big time.
when he gets down in the dumps he seems to pull away from everyone and kinda hidses to him self.

We went separate ways for 3 months then we reconnected. He apologized for not being there when i needed him. Said he didn't know why he would disappear on me and he felt really bad about it. I felt he was senser.
He has said more then once he had feeling as cares about me a lot. We have stared hanging out again but almost every time after we do he dissapears on me but says he dosnt want me out of his life.

This guy and I met at a bar, we hit it off and started dating exclusively after 3weeks. We continue to have disagreements and never really made it official as in boyfriend/girlfriend. I can tell he is interested since he always wants to see me, introduced me to all his friends and has talked to his parents about me.

In my past I usually become girlfriend within a month, so I’m trying to make it work and let it be built naturally. We both are having a lot happen in our careers and he says, “We’ll see how it goes and let’s let it happen naturally.”

The 4months have been a roller coaster... we are good and then he either starts talking about a future and how it would be with us and I start feeling hopeless that he just keeps saying the same thing. I’ve expressed me being scared that this won’t lead to anything serious and he says we can’t be thinking negative and have to just let things fall into place.

2days ago, we were both drinking, (he’s on vacation) and we were texting and we had an argument. I got in my feelings and he was frustrated and we are now going to have a talk when he gets back.

Any advice? I like him and we keep putting effort in different aspects of our ways with eachother, but what now?