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My boyfriend and I hung out with his friends at the pool for most of the day. The evening I had dinner plans with girl friends and potentially grabbing some drinks after. Because we ended up having to care for one of my boyfriends friends I ended up running a little late to my girls night. Since I was having a girls night my boyfriend had to have a boys night. He passively aggressively texted me the whole night saying have fun with your friends I guess I’ll just see you later... anyways once he got home he said hey I’m going to go to bed the door is open. No worries, I let him know we were on our last drink and just chatting and then I would be heading home. He kept making comments about staying with someone else which I ignored because I know he was drunkenly saying it. Right as I get in my friends car I let him know I am heading his way and he text me no just stay with your friend because I’m locking you out. He has my apartment key so I can’t even go to my place if he does end up locking me out. I get to his and sure enough I’m locked out and he isn’t answering his phone and my dog is barking on the other side. Finally after 45 minutes he answers and says fuck off. We are supposed to be moving in together in a month and he is meeting my family this week. The places I went to tonight were both restaurants, not bars, clubs etc. I stayed in contact with him the whole time. I feel very uneasy with his reaction and not sure how to handle it.

So there's this guy that I've liked for over 5 years. He's a year and a half older, but growing up, he used to look up to my older brother as a male figure in his life because his dad passed away when he was 10. So we still got to know each other despite the age difference. We're not close now, but we go to the same church and so we hang out in groups all the time. We are currently in an online zoom book club from our church, and he shares a lot about his little brother and how it's hard for him to get into important faith matters with him because he's a bit stubborn. When my brother and I were their ages, he used to read to me out of a book that was a game changer for us. It helped me a ton, and my bro and I got a lot closer through it. I have a huge desire to message him and ask him if he'd like the book to read to his brother, but I can't help but feel like it's too awkward and random, especially since I never message him. I also feel guilty though because if I'm afraid to ask him, it's because I think that I'll look stupid or weird, when what's really important is his relationship with his brother. So by thinking ohhh his brother would think it's stupid or he wouldn't want it, I'm making a decision that's not mine to make, so I feel guilty and selfish, but I also still feel terrified to look like a creep or weirdo. I just want to do something nice for them without showing him my feelings or looking like a stalker. Should I message him? please explain..