Search Results: husband almost cheated

so in my relationships (and I mean all my relationships) I am the police and they (my family and friends) are the rule breakers, so it seems.

For example: My brother almost killed my mom, everyone is ok with this.
My sister steals someone's husband, has a child out of wedlock while cheating on then boyfriend and then cheats on the next boyfriend. everyone is ok with this
My brother refuses to pay me back my money and all his CC debt my parents pay for it, and now my parents want me to give up my house for him for free and pay all his CC debt, and everyone is ok with this but me.
My husband wants my kids to play video games, do weed, smoke stuff and drink and eat unhealthy food and just sit in the house all day and watch TV and everyone is ok with this...

I'm kind of sick of being the police. some times I wonder if I should just say whatever, do what you guys want, just pretend I don't exist and I am not here because everyone is ALWAYS MAD AT me for having a voice... um those are MY KIDS too, and this is MY LIFE and that's MY MOM! EFFFFFF

ok done with rant, so which would YOU rather be? The one who is BREAKING all the rules and yelling and being angry and mean at people or the POLICE who is trying to uphold the rules and getting yelled at and making so many people angry at you for having rules/morals?

-they are argumentative
-they have to have their way
-they will put you down until you agree with them
-they think your way just sucks and will put your way down

for example this one girl thinks being the side chick is great, I don't think so and I said it's not for me... she goes on to call me names and put me down... what do you do?
ignore?
oh and in real life I have
-a mom who thinks her self worth is based on how people judge her (I'm trying to tell her it's not)
-a brother who thinks that he is the judge and must punish people by judging them and beating them up (he almost killed my mom and I don't think this is right)
-a sister who is always manipulating people including me (I'm trying to avoid her because everything she says you have to take with a grain of salt... she stole someone's husband, cheated on him with a guy and cheated on him and so on and so forth... she is just out to use people and she promises things she never brings to truth, and OH she also lies a lot and then accuses you of being the liar for not doing everything she wants...)

so how do you deal with difficult people? I've come to a point where I just want to hide in a cave and never deal with anyone... is that bad?

My female neighbor tried to steal my other neighbor's husband who's 19 turning 20. He married early. But the story is that my female neighbor have a husband. He knew his wife was cheating on him and being in bed with different other men. Her brother was mad at her about that. She doesn't have a good job and sometimes sell her body and give pleasure for money. I feel bad for her brother because she does it in her house. I feel bad for my other neighbors that they had to leave because of her. She was trying to get on him even though she knew he didn't like her and would never cheat on his wife that he been together with since middle school.

She been copying how I dress, how I look, my skin tone, how I walk, how I talk, and my hair for almost two years. She's in her 30s and I'm only 18. She dyed her hair like mine then I dyed my hair black and she did it too. So, I let my hair grow and she did too. When I have my natural hairstyle then she curls her hair. My natural brown hair is back so she dyes her hair brown. I wear shorts outside when it's hot and when she sees me. She does too and the same color of shorts. She bought outfits similar to mine. She bought a bag like mine. She bought heels like mine. She bought sneakers like mine. She bleached her skin to be light as me. She went too far.

She noticed my fiancé even more this week. She thought he was cute and I heard her say it. She started to dress in a crop top and skirt and walked around my front yard 5 times. Because my man and I were at the porch. That's weird right to walk back and fort in front of someone's house. Next day, she gave my grandmother food and asked if she could give it to the guy. Guess what... I ate the food!! LOL