Search Results: settling for someone

I’m in my mid twenties and never had a relationship. I’ve never been attracted to a guy that liked me back, the only guys that go after me are not my type. I know I am not beautiful but I am not ugly either, I’ve seen far uglier people get a good looking partner. I use dating apps to meet people and I’ve tried almost all, free and paid ones. I just cannot find the right guy and when people say I will, I get frustrated because I know it will not happen for me. I’ve tried messaging guys on the apps myself but it doesn’t work out. And I shouldn’t settle for anyone because I’m “lonely”. I’ve been on dates but it never works out, most fairly attractive women I know get approached by guys. Is there something wrong with me? I don’t think I come across as desperate, I may seem too aloof at times in my opinion. The closest thing I had to a relationship was a fling with someone for a few months, being around him felt like settling.

For example, i'm Peruvian American and I would prefer to settle down with a Latin American like me (doesn't really matter what Latin American country they're from, they could be Dominican, Colombian, Chilean, Salvadoran, Mexican, etc basically anyone in the Latino cultural group) because we speak the same language and have similarities in culture.

I would prefer to do that instead of settling in with someone who isn't that.

For those that don't know, ethnicity isn't about race, it's about culture. Latin Americans can be white, tan, brown/caramel, black. If you're cultural group/ethnicity ties in with race then click yes IF you don't want to mix in with someone outside of your cultural group.