I use gamer girl because it sounds better but specifically a gamer woman my age to hopefully date and then marry.
I have seen a couple of questions pop up from girls on here recently so I wanted to do a mytake letting those asking questions to know they are not alone in this.
well lets get started!
1. Because it's fun
I want to girl who wants to do a little more than just Netflix when she gets home from work. Unwinding with a little racing or fighting is quick yet could be a great change up to simply just watching stuff. You get to engage with it! and it gives you energy instead of simply laying there lazy on the couch. Given you can be lazy on the couch with video games but I have found myself more often than not needing to be at a more attentive stance to be more alert rather than not. Either way, it is simply a fun way to spend time with someone that I would not want to see going away.
2. It fights against being older
I don't just want to watch John Wayne or Audrey Hepburn movies and the news. I want to still have some action as I get older. I want to be on the battlefront or fighting zombies. And I don't want to hear you are too old to play video games....
and let's be honest... do old people play video games?
Wait you're right i'm sorry there are no older people that play video games
But I don't want to be one that simply goes home with wine and cheese to watch the latest Oscar winning film
Why is this point for girls as it seems to be only for a point for gaming? Because girls don't have to let age dictate what they can enjoy and it is attractive for girls that never lose their gaming desire. There is plenty of ways that gaming can still be enjoyable for both even into old age
3. A more focused girl
Funny enough, I would think that a girl that plays video games could be more energetic and attentive. Going back to my first point, playing video games can make you more engaged and alert while playfully interacting with each other. I feel its more physical than simply watching a movie.
4. It makes you more playful
I am using cosplay as an example but I feel like video games could cause you to be more energetic and playful in life rather than just settling into it. Imagine this, going to a furniture or craft expo vs going to comic con or E3. Into older years it would keep us young and not letting us accept our age and letting it define us but letting us define our age.
5. It simply gives you more entertainment options
So that girl above is linked with the picture above her because that is her collection of video games. Where this point specifically links to girls is that it gives you more options of things to do together as a couple. Imagine all the movies out there... well there are quite a few games out there now was well... to simply stop playing video games cuts you off from a great supply of entertainment. There are so many genres and so many types that it allows variety and ways to mix up a day of simply watching something when you can watch a movie then play a few games. Even jackbox games is a trivia based party game and that could be played at any time with only two people. To do an jackbox trivia episode a night could be something to look forward to.
Those are basically my points and while they are loosely also arguments to play games they are also arguments on why I want to find a gamer girlfriend and hopefully a gamer wife someday :)
I threw those final pictures in there for fun :) but I know there are girls that are going to see this and go oh he** no! and come up with 20 reasons why your girlfriend will dump you if all you do is play video games or why your relationship is better without video games and what i have to say is this
Girls do like to game. Now you could probably give me a chart and show me stats about how many girls dump a gamer guy and it could be 9 out of 10 girls dump a gamer guy but I will always love and play video games and I hope she likes to share with me one day so we can play together.