Search Results: shy girls expressing her love

As I read through the many questions and answers on this site, some things make themselves clear about the writers. When people express themselves sincerely a lot of issues bubble to the surface and it makes coming to this site somewhat educational. At the same time Some of the things I've read have left me cold and sometimes shocked. Our ability to be cruel to one another is immense, sometimes to the point of being sickening. So I was inspired to ask this question in a very general way as to let us consider our experiences with our "love interests". When I say love interest It could be a spouse , lover, boyfriend, gf.or just a person you have a crush on or worship from afar Consider all!

Now assuming all of us has had at least one bad experience with some love interest whether it is cheating, neglect or whatever, ask yourself how this has affected your life over the long term. Let me try to offer some examples; Shy guys have it hard enough just being shy. The way some girls treat them makes it worse, it must be very painful. As time goes on these guys become even more withdrawn and eventually give up. The pain of their youth is enough to set the course for the rest of their lives. What a tragedy! Another example would be young girls who are naive and think there is something cool about "bad boys". Not long after the dating begins, these "bad boys" are abusing the hell out of these girls physically and emotionally. The trauma from this experience can lead to depression, loss of self esteem and worst of all a belief that this is all that is out there. It is very likely these girls will grow into cynical young women who detest men. Or, like the shy guys they will withdraw from socializing all together.

So the polling question will read like this. Would a traumatic experience with romance/relationships/dating etc. alter your social future for the BETTER or WORSE?

This is a fun poll for guys. Me and my best friend wrote short descr. about the other one. We just wanted to see which type do most guys prefer. So here it goes:

Girl A: She is considered the most beautiful one in the group of friends. She has butt-long dark-brown hair, a bit too skinny body and a pretty face. Her eyes are hazel and she has average height. Wears fashionable clothes and light make up all the time.

She hates studying in general (which sadly reflects on her grades), but enjoys literature. Her hobbies are going out and chatting/playing on Facebook. She is properly articulate and has an incredible writing talent. Loves pop and rock.

She is also VERY stubborn and tends to "blackmail" people emotionally (i.e. silence treatment) until she gets things her way. She falls in love and cares for her boyfriend, but will pursue another romantic interest anytime if she feels that the new crush is more exciting. She does this freely because of the confidence her appearance gives her. She thinks one guy will be enough if she truly falls in love.

She is stubborn, but is also very gentle, kind and loyal to one friend. She likes to present herself as "sexy" or in the "punk" style which she expresses with always "trendy" clothes.

She finds appearance and "bad-boy" attitude most important on a guy.

Girl B: She is an average looking girl. She has slightly bigger nose, then she would desire it and fails to see it compliments her. She is fit and slim (very beautiful body). Average height and bellow-shoulder length light brown hair. Her eyes are very dark (brown). She loves comfortable clothes (jeans, T-Shirt). Will dress up rarely. When going out at night with friends. Hates make up and avoids it if possible. Is called cute by most guys.



She loves school, especially natural sciences and is at the top of her class. Spends a lot of her time studying, aiming for a great college. Her free time is usually spent training martial arts, which she loves so much.

She is very opinionated and wins most debates she engages in. She likes to improve and work hard trough friendly rivalry which is why most guys feel threatened by her. NEVER views herself as weaker or less able because of her gender, which tends to be bad for her health. -_- She hates pointless arguments and is the very opposite of stubborn since it seems like a waste of time and energy to her.



She is not skilled when it comes to taking the initiative in flirting.

Tends to be very shy while expressing her affection towards a guy. Horribly enough she also cowers it up. If he wants to date her, he usually has to be the one to approach her first. She isn't very sociable and doesn't let many people into her world. But those who do get in, will have her loyalty and and friendship for life. Just then, they can meet this protective and laid back person.

She finds cleverness and decisiveness the most attractive thing on a guy. Appearance isn't important while in healthy limits.