Search Results: good qualities in a girlfriend

Living With Epilepsy, or "Am I a Goddamn Werewolf"?

If you came here for a happy MyTake, this isn't one. For the past twelve-ish years I've suffered from audiogenic epilepsy with generalized properties of the left temporal lobe. Pleasure to meet you, Compo! *quiet...

Compodulator

Xper 5 Age: 36

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Shopping & Gifts

Would this leather jacket be a good gift for my girlfriend on her birthday? It's a Moro jacket, good quality, around $350?

She is into fashion and often says she wishes she could afford a leather jacket. I think she would look hot in one either in a dress or a tshirt and jeans. Also this is all I'm getting her because she said she wants...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What qualities and traits make a good girlfriend?

I’m just wondering what things you as guys appreciate from your girlfriends. What qualities you like, little things you like them to do (or not do)... just looking for some tips hahah

Temmec714

Xper 5 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

Things Women Do and Say When They Are Not That Into You

Women aren't that complicated as many people say and think. Here are the most common things that women say and do that signal they are not that into you. Let me count the ways: 1. "I am single but not available." She...

Pinay_ako

Editor Age: 44

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Dating

Do the titles of "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" matter?

I started talking to a guy. We have common interests. We've talked about a lot of things, and had felt a connection even before we met on the first date, during the time we were texting. We both openly stated the fact...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys: What makes you want to pursue a girl as your girlfriend?

Hey, so Valentine's Day is coming up and although I'm busy with schoolwork I can't help but think that I don't have a special someone to share the day with. In the past, a guy told me he likes me but I didn't have any...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

If getting married is a normal common thing, why does finding a partner seem so impossible?

You see attractive people find partners. You see unattractive people find partners. You see good people find partners. You see bad people find partners. Quality is out of the question when it comes down to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Depressed and loathe about the issues of life I can't change is there help?

A feminine guy. Ok I have both sides but feel out of wack unbalanced. I bet even my hormones are off quality. I remember half my mustache had more hair than the other side. Never had a girlfriend before. I have my 1st one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Dunno what to do, any thoughts?

I started typing and did not stop to check if there were errors , if it made sense or if it was well structured , i just started typing about this stuff cuz i have never talked about it with anyone, hope u can understand...

Fre4ky666

Xper 4 Age: 24

Dating

Am I dating him again? What is this?

I was in this relationship with someone a few months. At first it was great. we get along so well and then he became complety comfortable and I felt like I was the one doing all the work like texting first etc. Although I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Do most guys categorize women as either hookup or girlfriend material if so why?

Like what qualities cause a guy to see a girl as only good enough for a hookup and others as they want as a gf? Can a girl ever be moved from one category to the other or is it a final decision?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why some guys do not like to be in a relationship? And is it really "healthy" to remain single your whole life and not even to the extent of dating?

I know some women are also like that but it tends to be aimed more to men rather than women in my opinion. Afraid of loosing their freedom so they won't do whatever they want at that moment they want? They want to get...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Girls, Any advice for a guy who has low self-esteem?

I know it's really unattractive to hear but if I can be honest I struggle with my self-esteem. Maybe objectively speaking I'm doing fine. Maybe I look alright and talk fine and have a good personality but I can't shake...

Tothepowerof27

Xper 2 Age: 29

Relationships

Is my boyfriend unhappy in the relationship? Does he not want to be with me anymore?

Anonymous

(30-35)

First up, me and my boyfriend been together for nearly 1 and a half years We usually see each other once or twice a week and calls me everyday But recently we have been seeing each

First up, me and my boyfriend been together for nearly 1 and a half years
We usually see each other once or twice a week and calls me everyday
But recently we have been seeing each other nearly everyday
he's mostly the one initiating the calls everyday and asking me to go out nearly everyday this week and he's still very affectionate - still hugs and kiss me whenever we are together and he would put his arm around me or hold my hand in public
But when he called me last night, we had this conversation that made think he's unhappy being with me:
Him - im gonna be honest.. you're quite controlling. Even my mum noticed.
Me - how?
Him - you are kinda controlling. Like today i told u that i wanna get tipsy at work and u keep asking why and saying "no dont do that".. i can do whatever i feel like. Its for fun. Any guy would run away if they think their girlfriend is trying to control us
Me - im not trying to control u
Him - it feels like it. And you always take things seriously. Joke around more. Its not fun you know?
Me - so u think im boring?
Him - well yeah sometimes. You dont talk much. You dont joke around. You take evrything srsly. And that gets boring
Me - so you're not happy with me?
Him - i didn't say that. Im happy with u. you're the best partner I've ever had and thats the truth. Its just that i needed to tell u all this. I dont like being controlled and i want u to talk more. Sometimes i feel like im talking to a brick wall. You only talk if i talk to you. You only respond. Its frustrating sometimes.
Me - ok. Sounds like ur not happy with me. Just leave if u dont wanna be with me
Him - no im not saying that. you're taking it the wrong way. I am happy with u. If i wasn't, i wouldn't be with you. Simple. If i dont want something, i dont want it. I would leave. If i didn't care, i wouldn't call back when you're pissed off. I wanna be with u but i just wish you would talk more. You have good qualities like you're loyal, you're a good girl, you're good listener and everything else you're good.

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Entertainment & Arts

Making a Movie: The Death of History (Based on a True Story)

It's nearly Twenty-goddamn- eighteen. How the fuck is this shit still happening and why the shit are we still making shitty historical movies? Last night, I watched Snowden. It was a movie I wanted to see, but I didn't at...

Other_Tommy_Wiseau

Guru Age: 33

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Dating

He said he's not looking for exclusivity right now, but still wants to keep dating me. Should I keep dating him or walk away?

I've been seeing a guy I've met through dating app for over a month. He lives in the nearby city about 40 mins away, so we only get to meet about once a week/2 weeks. We've been on 4 dates (hiking, dinner, ice cream, city...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How do I finally become successful in dating?

Long story short, I have never had a girlfriend and I hate that so much. I feel unattractive because of it. I know that I have some good qualities, but I think that my mistakes cause me to be single. Like I don't say the...

SportsFan78

Xper 4 Age: 26

Relationships

How to deal with the situation of work life being in conflict with love life and not being able to do both?

Hey guys and girls, need some advice. I'm a 24 year old guy and I work a full time IT job, started two new businesses in the last few months and studying Management as well. I have a girlfriend and I have known her for 12...

aritzzz

Xper 4 Age: 32

Travel

Traveling with boyfriend and his single female friend for 3 weeks. HELP?

My boyfriend of 4 months is graduating he wanted to go back to india (and bring some of his friends from the USA to visit). He invited many people, and I asked my friends too. We bought the tickets early because we found...

Xoxocutekitty

Guru Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

5 Reasons Why Your Fear of Being Alone Is A Curse

1. Your fear comes from a place of lack and scarcity. Everyone has read those annoying blog posts whining about “where the good men have gone.” Everyone has seen those disgruntled YouTube comments about women who aren’t...

JustAnotherGirlie

Editor Age: 30

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