Search Results: he said he loves me but now hes distant

Why does my ex so cold and distant?

Hi, Just before lockdown, I started seeing someone that I worked with. He had not long split up with someone and I was the same, we liked each other for some time and it progressed into a relationship. Due to covid, I...

Sushi92

Xper 3 Age: 33

Dating

We kissed and he is being distant?

I have been friends with him for 4 years now. I always thought of him as platonic and nothing more. Fast forward 2 years later we lose touch for a year. -December, 2019: We reconnected and started talking for hours on...

Pearlangel

Xper 5 Age: 28

My boyfriend's behaviour is confusing me. What do I make of this?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. This is my first relationship and we're both in our 20s. Things have been really good. He's caring, attentive, affectionate. I really love him. Recently, maybe...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Could my ex still have feelings?

My ex and I broke up a little over a month and I’m still hung up over it. We had a few bumps in our relationship but we always got through it. He told me he loved me first and then I told him a few months after. A month...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy avoided me after discovering feelings?

Guy friend discovered I had feelings (indirectly, I never admit I had) after he met a girl and I totally refused being his “love advisor”. It was weird time but then I’ve been acting friendly and totally normally for a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I just got broken up with and I don’t know what to do?

I’ll try keep it as unbiased and simple as possible. We’d been together for about 2 months. 2 weeks ago we were so close. I think they were about to say L word and I wouldve definitely said it back. But the days after...

DerChoco

Xper 3 Age: 28

How much space is too much space?

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a 1.5 years now. It was mostly LD, but we always made the time for each other. Since covid began, I had been visiting for a week about twice a month. Aside from that, we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How do I tell him I love him?

so I've been seeing this guy for a little over six months at first I wouldn't exactly say seeing this guy but we were talking. A spontaneous meet makes me instantly fall head over heels. Mind you he is massively...

tamayotakesthecake

Xper 4 Age: 33

Not even good enough for the friendzone?

My female friend cut me off (completely ignores me) because people spread lies about me liking her (I don’t) She started avoiding me and when I asked why she’s been distant she lied and said it not personal,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I reach out to him, I feel like a bit of an idiot to but at the same time I don’t want him to think that if he's just scared we can sort it?

Just broke up with someone I’ve known 20 years & dated for the last 5 months. We both have daughters & we spent a lot of time together as a family & talked about our future (moving in etc). Which was all initiated by him....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why was I the sidechick? How can I move on?

I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. I am 21 years old and I fell in ove with this guy who I met around a year ago. When I met him he told me he was single and we started dating and became exclusive. We...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I stay in contact or no?

I met this guy online, a gaming website. We talked on and off last year but I didn't pay much attention to him, then this year we started talking more often and he told me he liked me for some time, and thought I was cool...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend said he needs space?

My boyfriend of 8 months has been working overtime last week so all week we didn’t spend any time together, I was upset with him would send him texts about how I missed him trying to get his attention he was acting cold...

ley9284

Xper 3 Age: 46

Guys could he still care or doesn't he really what should I do?

So this guy who was my first love and my first for everything I dated 6 years ago and he is still in love with me he says and me still in love with him after all these years, he has not been in serious relationships since...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I sent this to a potiential sexual partner and I think he got annoyed?

etche’s response was like ah I don’t wanna be sexual partners anymore. Just friends... and then I said how a friend sent me thatAnd he was like no like “Ask them how to speak to guys” and then I was like it’s not for...

Distants

Xper 6 Age: 23

How to stop being anxious in a relationship?

We've been together for almost a year, we've had a bunch of arguments lately (because of small things, nothing big) but overall we're having fun, we love each other. He's attentive, sweet and I know he loves me so much...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A coincidence or feelings?

My partner of 4 years has a son with his ex, they split over 10 years ago, I know they had a toxic relationship and it was on and off, my partner (now ex), I believe, has always felt guilt for the fact his son didn’t have...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do some men become very distant with women that like them after a previous break with an ex?

My guy friend and I have been on and off for a few years now. I fell in love with him and after the break up he went through with his ex of 1 year. I’ve noticed a huge change with him. He’s become so distance with me. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)