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I've had a pretty tragic summer if you ask me. I lost my cousin to suicide, my boyfriend dumped me and I lost pretty much all my friends besides one. I know this might sound really petty but I'm kind of pissed. So I haven't done much all summer and I mentioned to my friend who she claims is my bestfriend but she doesn't really act like it, that we should start doing cool stuff together. And she mentioned hiking and I love hiking I have a canon camera worth $500 I love photography I love excercise lets do it! She has been on about 5 really cool hikes with her mom and sister and hasn't once invited me. I brought it to her attention that I would love to come after her first really cool hike I politely asked her to let me know when they plan there next one. So it's been like 5 different occasions and she has really rad pictures and I haven't got anything to show for my summer but heartache, she went on another hike today and didn't bother telling me. She just never replied to me for 6 hours and I don't know I know this is very immature and petty but I don't appreciate the sneaking around, it's all very sly if you ask me. And I understand the first hike was a family hike but I've been friends with her for 5 years now and they class me as family I just think it is very spiteful of her to not invite me after I have politely asked to be informed for the next trip. Do I have the right to be upset?

I have been seeing someone for nearly 2 months, it got very, very intense quite quickly and he decided to call it off because he said the 'spark' wasn't as strong anymore becuase we had a little argument.
We stopped talking for a week, when he texted me. The texts were purely sexual to start off with, until he started asking about my day and since then we have spoken every day since.
I saw him on the weekend, we stayed the night together, and he was telling me that he doesn't care if I dont want to sleep with him becuase he has missed me and wants my company.
He cuddled me all night, was waking up in the middle of the night and kissing my foreheard and holding my hands.

We have kept speaking since then, but last night he told me that he thinks what we are doing (meeting up, sleeping together, getting close etc) is unfair on me and my feelings.

Since then I have been so upset again becuase I thought things were going the right way.
This has been the first time since I saw him since we ended things, so should I just act cool, ask to meet him for a casual drink and explain how I feel and what I want to happen with us, or should I leave him be?