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I want to be as specific as possible so you can get the full picture of my situation.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months exactly. We see eachother every day. We spend nearly every second of our free time together except when... It's time to go to bed. He tells me he loves me. I want to believe he does. But he has only stayed the night with me twice. Often, most of the time more than once a week, he will even book an extravagant, expensive hotel room... just hang out with me there, sex, hang out some more, drink etc , then leave. Sometimes he is so drunk he can barely walk and he would still rather go home! It is very important for a man to sleep with me, to hold me, make me feel safe, secure and comfortable... I don't understand how a man can be comfortable having sex with me, going down on me etc but not sleeping me. It's very hurtful, and I feel like it's something about me. Like, maybe he doesn't want to be attached to me. Like a psychological issue where he may see this as a larger commitment. Or maybe he is scared it will become a habit. I DON'T KNOW. I am an attractive, slender, 21 year old woman... I can't see why he wouldn't want to sleep with me. Every morning when I wake up I just roll my eyes into the back of my head like... what the hell am I doing? I have never thought that this would ever be any sort of issue.
I have confronted him many times. Told him that this isn't going to work if this carries on. I have told him that it is important to me. It's just like he doesn't care. I've never even been inside or outside of his apartment. But I know he doesn't have a girlfriend bc he's ALWAYS with me.

When I told him last night that I needed an answer right then and there why he won't sleep with me, he said, "The last girl that I slept with was my ex of 7 years"... Which ended about 5 years. (he is 28) I DO KNOW for a FACT that this is a LIE bc he told me about another realationship that he was in for one year and they lived together after 6 months. I confronted him on the lie... he stuck by his lie saying that I had gotten confused (HA I had not) and I didn't say another word bc I didn't want to argue. He doesn't pee the bed, doesn't pass gas while sleeping... so it can't be that. he's not a snorer... Does any one have any input on why this is? And dont say it might be a clingy booty call bc its not like that. I just need to know if I should just leave. What's the deal here guys, really?

So I've officially been apart from my ex boyfriend for four months after he initiated break up. We have a son together so we have to see each other about once a week. We already have a custody order in place. He basically kind of picked a fight and broke up with me. We've been on and off and tried last summer to patch things up and he broke it off this Jan. At the start of the break up he basically was very angry and acted like I did not exist. Especially when exchanging our little boy. He'd drop him off not make eye contact and be gone.

During the entire breakup his mom has been in contact with me. In the beginning I really was desperate bc I wanted nothing more than to make things works and called, and pretty much lost my pride, lol. About 2 months ago I made up in my mind Im going to stop because it's so not worth it anymore. The mixed messages come from his mom mostly. We still do lunch dates every so often and the entire time she talks about him and she kinda acts like she wants me to say something, but I do not. I don't think she's ever seen me just give up cold turkey like this.

When we go out she will say how she prays how me and him get together and one instance when she was babysitting my son she called me and was saying how they were coming over and brought her son by. I made sure to meet her outside bc I didn't want the drama. A few wks ago she called me to "check on me and now very recently she sent me a message so social media complimenting me. I dont' know what to make of this. Also my ex is starting to initiate conversations with me a bit more. He doesn't call me but when we meet he always finds a reason to talk. Whether its stupid things like this letter came for you or he will ask me if he was late when we both meet up at 5:00 pm and he obviously has his cell phone to tell time. I get confused because when I also talk with him mom who was helping me with babysitting she would say how all of this would be a lot easier if me and my son would move in. She also says that if me and my ex would have just move to the city that they were in this seperation would have never happened.

Does it sound like she's forcing him to talk to me little by little. Also sometimes when we meet he acts sad.