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I Don't Want To Be a Dude
Obviously I cannot be a dude but everyone at some point in their lives has pondered what it would be like to be the opposite gender. It's hard being a woman, and I won't discount what a lot of us go through as being less...
Studs vs. Sluts: Let's Put This to Rest
Studs VS Sluts. We have all heard of it, heard about many MANY double standards that plague the dating world, or dating pool, or dating scene or whatever the fuck people want to call it. Male – Female...
Do pedophiles deserve sympathy?
"Imagine a world in which admitting your attraction to busty women or tall men led to alienation, jail time, or your murder. Older gay men can probably remember such an era, but nowadays most sexual appetites have been...
An Unbiased Perspective on the Quarrel Between Hema and Bujutsu Aficionados
Recently there have been two groups that have been slugging it out. It’s the HEMA(Historical European martial arts) fans and bujutsu aficionados. The HEMA like to think that traditional European martial arts and weapons...
What are some homophobic comments that you have come across?
These are from youtube 1. "LGBT= Let God Burn Them oh wait he did in Sodom and Gomorrah" 2. "Homosexuals are born that way, it's not a choice" yes I agree, it's a sick, disgusting MENTAL DISORDER just like pedophilia,...
Was a born this way?
Until I was in the 6th grade I thought I was straight, but always likes nail polish and dancing. Starting 7th grade I lost those feelings. I felt like guy and liked "guy things" well kinda, I wasn't into sports but I did...
Is being bi worse than just being straight up gay or lesbian?
Gays and lesbians get a lot of heat for the mid choices in who they choose to love. But it seems to me that when you tell people you're bi, it's worse than being full on gay. Why is this? Like, so what if I like both...
Dating is harder for gay black bottoms?
Hi I am a 24 year old black gay bottom and I find it impossible to date. First off i do not look like an Abercrombie and Fitch model which is the preferred look in the gay community. I am more of a cub. I do have accounts...
What are some of your personal fashion choices?
For instance do you: -Shy away from bright colors (red, orange, pink, etc.) -Wear only shorts if its summer -Never wear a belt... even if it's blue jeans >:( Or do you just walk into a store or closet and go with...
The Fabulous Life of an Only Child
Anyone with a sibling has gotten angry and thought an only child has got it made not having to share anything or I wish I was an only child, well here are some reasons why being the only kid isn't always the dream life...
How many people here accept transgender people and who don't? Add an explanation, why do you accept or not accept?
Now I am not transgender, but I know some people who are. My personal feelings are if someone asks to be considered something else it's not that hard to show some decent respect every other human gets. Sure you can...
Does it bother anybody else that they constantly try to normalize homosexuality?
By they I mean the media and just people in general. I don't care if somebody is gay or not it's their choice to do what they please. I just don't want it constantly shoved down my throat
Do liberals just need to stop giving a fuck?
For the most part, I consider myself a liberal woman. But the one thing I am not a typical liberal about it that I don't care for all of this political correctness. I mean, at first I did, but then I realized that no...
Does anyone ever feel like they should turn gay, because nobody is interested in you?
I turn 29 in a few months. I've never had a girlfriend. Never held hands with a girl, and i've always been the butt of jokes. Everyone assumes i'm gay because i've never had a girlfriend, as if it's my choosing. At every...
The Not So Cool Part About Being a Guy
Being a guy is not an easy feat in our world. We have our own problems where some that are small, with others that are funny, and others large and painful. We also live with the constant expectation to be strong and to...
Do girls actually prefer muscular guys? Just slightly fit guys? Average? Or just don't care what size?
Note: this is purely superficial, so please none of this 'personality is really the only thing that matters in the end' which I am 100% with, but this is about superficial look which can not be denied, affects our...
How do you deal with bigoted loved ones?
I have two relatives who I love dearly, except this last election made me wake up to the fact that they are extremely intolerant. They often slam people who aren't white, gays, trans people, modern women and pro choice...
Can someone explain what the Bible states about gay relationships/people?
My family doesn't really have a good excuse to not go to church on Sundays, we just don't. I've recently been exposed to a summer vacation bible school where I have been a camp counselor for a week. I'm become interested...
Men in My State, or Why to (as a Woman) Avoid Dating in Utah
Welcome to Utah. A state known commonly for the church of Latter Day Saints, Skiing, and Odd alcohol laws. We have amazing scenery, some decent places to enjoy yourself, a great gay pride parade celebration, and a...
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"Imagine a world in which admitting your attraction to busty women or tall men led to alienation, jail time, or your murder. Older gay men can probably remember such an era, but nowadays most sexual appetites have been mainstreamed to the point of banality. Pedophiles, for obvious reasons, don't enjoy the same kind of tolerance, and thus it seems as if they may be locked forever in a sexual prison from the moment they're born. A pedophile is a person with a sexual and emotional orientation towards (some) children. It is not a choice. Dealing with being a pedophile is not easy. As a young person you lack a perspective of a healthy sexual life style, that of having a family. The burden of having sexual fantasies of which you know that you cannot put into practise, can sometimes be very heavy to carry. Pedophiles certainly deserve sympathy for their challenges in life. Instead they receive hatred, violence and social exclusion. Pedophiles should be judged on their actions and less on their sexual orientation. It isn't important what your thoughts are, it is what you do that matters. Sympathy for pedophiles should depend on what they have done and what they have endured."
