Search Results: nice things guys want to hear

Help! I need relationship advice about my ex?

I need some relationship advice. A little over four years ago, I was dating this guy for a year. We were going strong at first but then things got rocky. He had a lot of family issues and I tried to give him as much...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Was I wrong to ghost this guy when I found out he mostly dates women in their early twenties?

I feel a bit sh*t about it but I went out on a date with this guy who is around my age (33) and we had a nice time, lots to talk about and some attraction there. He was flirty and seemed interested. Found out the last...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

I overheard my boyfriend saying negative things about me. Should I dump him?

I was with my friend at a party and she said he was talking shit about me to everyone in the smoking area so I went outside and I heard him he was saying “if I don’t keep her you can have her, shit talk to her now if you...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Does this make me a horrible person/friend?

So I went through a really bad breakup recently & I've been really struggling to deal with it. The whole situation has been really hard, it’s knocked my confidence, self esteem & I just feel really down. My best...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, why do you say things because they sound nice?

For example my boyfriend ALWAYS says things because he thinks I want to hear them (?). I tell him that I spilled something on my skirt and he says “I’ll buy you a new one”, but he NEVER does. He does that with everything....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

He hasn’t texted me in a week. Has he lost interest or is just pulling away but will be coming back?

I met this guy online 2 months ago and we’ve been texting back and forth everyday. We even went out once. We spent 3h together and he hugged me at the end. Then we start sexting more after that and the chemistry was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

I'm not sure she's just being nice or trying to connect with me?

Hey girls and guys , So I start by myself I'm a 19 y. o boy and I have sister who is 24 So I hang around with her and her friends sometimes and even if don't she tells about me to her friends like we are all just...

Mamad_H

Xper 3 Age: 24

Relationships

Why do I feel so sick after I ended our relationship? How to cope with the pain?

So I was dating this guy for 4 months and I was never fully satisfied during our relationship. It was always up and down, one moment he would be very attentive to my needs, affectionate and loving and the next couple of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

About my lunch date?

From the past week I've been thinking about my lunch date. So far I've been calm about it but I have sometimes that I have overthink it. From the past 20 years I've been looking for the right girl. With all the rejections...

scott04sa22

Guru Age: 40

Guy's Behavior

Should I talk to him or not?

There’s this guy. We work together and we haven’t really talked much. I’ve only been there a few weeks and I’m not sure how long he’s been there. He’s in his early 20s and I’m 19. He is really nice and he spoke to me on...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Is he worth doing this?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

How do I not get mad over this?

There’s this guy I kind of like. We work together and we haven’t really talked much. I’ve only been there a few weeks and I’m not sure how long he’s been there. He’s in his early 20s and I’m 19. He is really nice and he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

How can I be more understanding about this crush?

We talk almost every day on Instagram and I know he likes me. I know because last time I saw him at his birthday party a few weeks ago he showed some obvious signs. He even asked my brother some serious questions about me...

Passionfruit03

Xper 5 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

How can I get my crush to open up more?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

A guy stood me up and I told him I was done with him and he gave me an excuse. What should I do?

This guy stood me up without even texting me “hey I can’t make it.” Nothing! It was crickets all night. We were just supposed to meet at my house and talk we can’t go out bc of COVID but it was still inconsiderate. And...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

When a guy says that he is not the right guy for you?

I don't know how to interpret this. So... guy says I deserve a relationship but we'd never be more than friends due to working together and age difference. I explained to him why I'm open minded (pass history dating...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

He seems really into me. Do guys actually act like this?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month but my country is in lockdown (we can still meet one person outside). He seems super keen on me and I’ve not met anyone like that before. He messages me every day and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Embracing The People You Think Are Needy and/or Clingy

This is my first official G@G myTake post. This was originally going to be an answer to a question posed by @treselle asking, "Do men like needy women?" I am sure you can go visit her questions to find the other opinions...

knottywriter

Xper 6 Age: 46

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Relationships

Why do guys lie about having girlfriends and do you think he’d leave her for me if I was closer to him?

This guy lied to me the whole year we were talking about being single. I’ve asked him twice about his relationship status he always confessed he had no girlfriend and was single. So we continued speaking. I stated to...

candyflosssweets

Xper 4 Age: 28

Society & Politics

Observations on Behavior in Dating: A Battle Between the Sexes

This may trigger some people because whether you want to admit it or not, everyone does at least a few of these things when dating. I am equally guilty of doing some of these things too. As I have been on this site for a...

DexWest

Xper 7 Age: 33

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