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Women are fooling themselves nowadays or are just not quite sure where equality starts from. Say we got your equal pay and opportunity to look satisfying on the paper, and we're already past the point of physical differences as they don't matter anymore. But do normal women NOT want to be dominated, taken care of, paid for and guided by the male figure, yet? I don't think so!
Men don't mind shy, inferior or equal female sex partners or love interests, but women do, and will always do! It's psychological and it shapes up to a mockery of its own: science "says" equality FTW! Or as does the media, be it conservative or liberal, but as you scrape off the surface of any relevant field of science, especially the social ones and psychology, you're up to a shocker.
Doesn't it show that liberal activism concerned with women's issues is all together disconnected from reality, but we're still taking it for granted?
Don't get me wrong, I wish if women were programmed to want to be equally dominant and self controlling, but I don't see it happening whilst we're still progressing the opposite way.
Example 1 for the dim-witted: the basic rule of social attraction is that a guy will have to make the initiative, lure the woman in and take her home, otherwise it can't be a sexually appealing experience, or happen at all.
Example 2: We (men) proudly associate our preferences with visual and sensible features, thus objectifying our casual love interests and encouraging them into taking more care of their bodies. Women will rarely ever want to consciously and practically objectify a casual love interest: a hot body and an inferiorly intelligent or non-purposeful approach will usually never lead to bed. Women don't even admit their will to solely select men on basis of their hot body features, whereas a man will gladly engage in a mind game to bend a mentally or emotionally unattractive woman to their well, if they had the desired body features.

Alright. I've heard this asked multiple times and let me clear the air. First off I'm white and married my chocolate lover after divorcing my first wife who was white.

There's a combination of things going on here complicating dating on both sides if it wasn't hard enough.

Alright as always there's general attraction. White men do find black women attractive, but like dating within our own race there are still women who are trailer trash, obese, or whatever we do not like (even if they're white). But there is preference, personally there's nothing sexier than oiling my wife up with a massage and the way her skin shines so beautifully.

Then there's we don't know if u are into us in general, if u even like white guys, if ur open-minded. It's a lot more pressure than asking someone of your race, which is mostly if they are into you not if they can dig your race and are into you.

Your hair just takes getting used to it. As a man in general we don't mess with our hair so much so when I learned all of my wife's rules it was odd but just a learning deal. (She straightens it so I can't touch it, wears this nightcap thing for moisture I hate, and she doesn't wash it as much because of the oils) men do not like weaves... you don't have to have long radiant hair but if you can stay natural.

Ignorance is next on this long list. Some people of any race don't get to meet many people of another culture and so form ideas based on a small percentage then spout their advice as the end all. Make up your own mind.

Aggressive. A lot of women ask to specify this specifically. The norm black Independant woman says things bluntly, and as they are generally. This shocks white people lol. Whites sugar coat and put on facades to each other, so it's shell shock until it's understood it's not aggressive just blatant facts (which takes time and communication).