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I've been very passive most of my life, often keeping my differing opinion to myself when in a group setting such as in a classroom, but if someone asked me directly, I'd have little hesitation stating my differing opinion.

For instance, back in high school, a girl was complaining about getting a detention for using her phone during class earlier in the day. I didn't say anything but when she said my name, looked at me and said "right"? As if to ask me to vouch for her seeing as how I was there as well, but to her surprise, I said "well, you've been using your phone in class for quite some time and she's told you multiple times to stop but you continued, so yeah you got a detention for it".

This angered her as expected and seemed to shock her as she's a big figure in the "popular crowd" and likely was used to people affirming her but I threw a curveball she didn't expect.

Over the years, I've become more passive aggressive and about a year ago when a slight change to my medication for anger management, depression and ADHD, I've now become more assertive than passive. I take absolutely no issue inserting my opinion into a discussion when it's contrary to the popular one. Even when there's a good chance someone may get offended by what I say.

While I also take no issue in acknowledging the limitations I have in regards to topics I know little about, like cars and such, in those cases, I make my unfamiliarity clear and delegate to those who are familiar. I also tend to probe others opinions when stated in a general manner, wanting to know what led them to their conclusion.

I'd call this a positive development for me and my girlfriend of 2 years seems to like this development as well. I wouldn't consider myself confident nor self loathing, just realistic and abel to acknowledge that there's nothing special about me.

I am curious how others view this though, do you find it attractive if someone is outspoken and isn't afraid to offend others?

I was once hit in the testicles by a woman who I was arguing with. I reflexively hit her in the face and pulled the punch, but she still got a black eye. She ran to the phone and called the police, who came and immediately arrested me. I told them what she had done to me, but they refused to arrest her, and treated her as the victim, and refused to get me medical attention which I asked for. I was held in jail and had to bail out for $5000. I was charged with assault and battery. In court, she didn't appear or testify, and my lawyer argued self-defense, but I was still found guilty, and fined, and sent to anger management classes. The Judge said that no matter what she did I should not have hit her. WHAT HAPPENED TO MY RIGHT TO DEFEND MYSELF IN THIS CASE? ARE MEN ALLOWED TO DEFEND THEMSELVES AGAINST WOMEN?