Would you want to know I've attended anger management classes?

[Anonymous]

After an ugly break-up a couple years ago, which was indeed my fault, I sought counseling and attended anger management classes. I didn't do it with the purpose of winning him back though but to become a better, stable person in life. He left and blocked my number on all social medias after lashing out for the 2nd time. I was previously forgiven on the 1st incident but not the 2nd. No excuse whatsoever. If I wouldn't like it being done on me then it was wrong what I did. Even my own parents were very disappointed in me.

I haven't been in the dating scene for a while but would you want to know I attended anger management classes? Would you want to know what was the reason for my last break-up (I got dumped the 2nd time I got aggressive)? I hate the person I had become at the time.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'd want to know. I'd probably say pass after that, because I don't want repeats, but for those who CAN stomach it, finding out early beats finding out later, and it saves you from wasting your time on people who won't stick around.

[Asker]

I've changed though but it's understandable if someone refuses to take the risk. Sadly this history of violence in a relationship (I was the one doing it) lowers my dating pool.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yeah you'd have to bring something unique to the table, and I can't imagine what that would be for me to ignore possible violent incidents. You say you've changed, and I believe you, and I hope that's true, but the ten women behind you don't have that baggage so there's not much incentive for me to ignore them.

[Sofargone93]

I'd want to know why you attended anger management.

[Asker]

I threw some cups on the floor and hit my boyfriend several times during an argument. He left the 2nd time this violence happened. He was never coming back and I wanted to be a better person.

[Asker]

I haven't dated for slightly over 3 years since that break-up and getting help.

[Sofargone93]

You scared of yourself?

[Asker]

I believe I'm now ready to start over and meet someone.

[Sofargone93]

One day at a time.

[Anonymous]

I probably would want to know. I just want to say good on you for taking the steps to better yourself.

[exitseven]

It would sort of turn me on if i thought that you could go ballistic on me at any moment.

[NathanDavis]

Yes.