Do you think you have anger management issues?

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WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

Uhhhhhhhh…😅😅😅😅😅😅

Welp…I have some video evidence that suggests ‘yes’😂 I’m #8 in gray. I’ll transcribe the audio since these are gifs.

Stepped in for my teammate with a habitual line-stepper goalie (Turned into a slap fight, I couldn’t shake my glove off🤦‍♂️😂)

Me to ref: “I TOLD YOU TO FUCKING CONTROL THAT KID OR ELSE I WOULD! Oh, my bad…. it was the other ref I talked to.”😂

To goalie: “I’M NOT LIKE YOU!!!”; To everyone: “I’M NOT LIKE ANY OF YOU!!!”

To goalie: “I’M NOT A NORMAL FUCKIN’ PERSON!!!” ….. aaaannnndddddd the other ref ejected me😂😂😂

So, yeah…. I can fly off the handle a bit😅 If I’m playing hockey, it’ll be on film. Kind of crazy to see yourself flip out, lmao, but it is what it is and I am who I am😝 And not a soul has fucked with me in my league since that day, I don’t hate that at all. If it backs people off of me overall, I’m happy to give occasional demonstrations, hahaha.

I’m usually wicked chill though, I just ape out in sports or periodically in road rage. The road rage stuff is about disrespect. I’m not going to chase you down because you cut me off, I’m going to chase you down because you cut me off and then gave me the finger when I throw my hands up like “whoa, what the hell, buddy?” If you bumped into me on foot, I’m pretty damn sure you wouldn’t give me the finger, you’d probably be polite and apologize. So what offends me is that you’re taking this liberty with me from the safety of your car, thinking you’ll just speed off, unaccountable. Something in the very fiber of my being tells me “Drop everything you’re doing and hold that person accountable.” Not necessarily a fight, but kind of a “Here I am, bro…anything you wanted to say?”, and it’s whatever from there. I try to lay off of women, but dudes, forget it, I hope you’ve got more gas and/or better mileage than me, because now I’m going wherever you’re going. This is probably how some soft ass dude with a gun will find his way of fulfilling his fantasy of shooting someone, lmfao, but I’ll go out knowing that at least everyone before that guy got some sense scared into them. You want to drive like an asshole, I’ll shake my head and shrug my shoulders. But to be disrespectful on top of that, that’s gonna set me off.

I swear I’m wicked chill😅😂 I just don’t have medium-mad, it’s all or nothing with me. It’s fairly infrequent, it’s just explosive when it does happen. If it’s with women, it turns into self-harm, because I just don’t have it in me to put hands on a lady, even at my craziest times. So I headbutt walls, doors, etc, throw things…. again, this almost never happens, just a couple times in my life where a woman pushed me past my threshold. That’s crazy in its own right, but it makes me feel a little better about the overall situation because I can reason some nobility in whupping a dude’s ass, but hitting a gal changes the whole flavor of that aspect of someone’s personality. I know the “equal rights, equal fights” guys won’t like that, but that’s just way out of bounds for me.

So I’m glad I have at least that measure of control, but otherwise, yeah…. my flip-outs are usually pretty legendary. I used to get into all sorts of shit when I played semipro football. Ran into one of my old teammates at a fair with his girlfriend, he introduces us and says “This is Shady. THIS is that whiteboy I was telling you about, from the Warriors…”, and she looks at him and her eyes widened a bit and she’s like “OHHHHH….”😂😂😂

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My anger problems used to be pretty bad. I used to snap at people very quickly and also, sometimes things that seemed very slight to other people would trigger a callous and intentionally elaborate plan on my part to get them back worse.

Like the time in highschool, someone told me his weed was too good for me which really pissed me off because A. I didn't really smoke weed back then B. It wasn't really good at all so what the fuck are you trying to say about me? (lmao i was so crazy)

I happened to know he thought he was hot shit because he started selling so I broke into his car with a coat hanger and stole like 3oz off him.

He went around looking for who did it accusing everyone except me, which also pissed me off because it kinda defeated the purpose of the whole thing a little bit. He was all like "oh my people, my people are gonna be mad" like you ain't got no people my man, calm down. Talking about "if the guy brings it back to me now I won't jump him"

So naturally, my only option at this point was to give his weed away for free. I sure as shit couldn't smoke all that by myself, but I sure knew all the people that could. (his customers)

In the end I gave him the empty Mason jars back and told him that after thinking it over, his weed really was too sophisticated for me. I thanked him for the learning experience.

dustybiker · Accepted Answer

I have past trauma, so I do have triggers. I have learned how to react to those triggers. Adapt. I did, but not anymore.

rachel776 · Accepted Answer

i don't think anyone can argue with this

melanieeeB · Answer

Nope, I'm peaceful most of the time

John1972 · Answer

Without a doubt but don't we all? Each and every single one of us have some degree of an anger issue. If you have ever gotten mad and said something regretted saying, threw something, hit a wall, or just screamed out loud. All of these are level of losing control of your anger. So I know I've done all of the above and more at some point in my life and I would be willing that not one of us on this site could claim they have never lost their temper? If someone does step up with that claim we will be meeting a saint or a liar.

SnowedIn · Answer

NO! 😡 Just kidding. But, no. I get angry. We all do. I don't throw things (well, I did throw my phone at the wall once. It didn't end well for the phone, the wall, or my wallet. There were, however, some extenuating circumstances.) I don't yell. In fact, the kids know that when dad gets the glacially calm voice, life is about to get sad. So, yeah, I get angry, but don't have issues dealing with it appropriately.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope, not at all...

my blood is cold as it gets, same with my head... emotional intelligence is something I've been working on pretty much all my life, so, I am quite chill

as for the very few things that actually make me quite angry, and these would be extreme situations, in that case my anger will be well managed and focused, not out of control, which is not a good thing for those who target the ones I care for... lol

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

I get angry about stuff for sure and I know that I have gotten some pretty heated discussions at times over stupid things… but usually I keep it level headed.

Emiliamazing · Answer

I used to have s as temper, but the fuse is much longer now that I (we) are parents.

Pink2000 · Answer

Possibly. It takes a lot to get me really mad but once I get to that point I can’t control myself.

nawtee_me · Answer

My ex-wife went to anger management classes where they gave her a puzzle to do without giving her a picture of it to go by. She politely got up and walked out without saying a word. I guess it helped because I would have been cussing them for it... lol

Raiden93 · Answer

Anger management issues no. Short fuse for disrespect , nonsense and ignorance YES. We all have our triggers. Some call it anger and some call it self liberation lol.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I'm normally pretty laid back and easy going but I can definitely get really mad if I'm pushed far enough.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

No. I definitely have anger issues, but time and negative consequences have afforded me the ability to learn to manage them effectively.

nolabels · Answer

I have a reasonable level of tolerance for idiots and a**holes. Exceed that level of tolerance, experience the results.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

17 years ago, yes. The state of mind is not easy to understand and extremely difficult to master.

Bethany22 · Answer

Yes, I have difficulty repressing negative thoughts at work. I never actually show anger though

Account · Answer

I used to. It has been getting better with time though

humanearth · Answer

No, not really, I just get bitchy and have nasty moid swings once a month. I must be going though menopause

DrBanana · Answer

Me not so much no but I used to have a huge chip and n my shoulder so had to make an adjustment to my attitude.  All good now more mellowed.

Sparkie460 · Answer

No I think I manage my anger really well. I just let it build up until I explode. It happens every 5 or 6 years

TroyDT2 · Answer

Only with racists and others who judge entire groups based upon a small sampling.

Havthrills · Answer

Nope. I don't get mad. Used to, not good so I don't get mad anymore

Nominal · Answer

No. But because im not angry person. But i believe i am horible at manahing it. But i believe i can get better, if i put little effort.

Fuentes · Answer

I use too but it's pretty hard to get me mad now lol

BLP11520 · Answer

No I may say stuff but nevermind hurt anyone

Agape93 · Answer

That's putting it mildly

exitseven · Answer

No, I manage my anger quite well.

LavLavLuv · Answer

No😠😤😡🤬 But actually, no.. 🙂

Zolly99999 · Answer

Yes... I actually take medication for it.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Absolutely. There are things I react poorly to

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, I rarely get angry over anything.

Noahzaid · Answer

No, I don’t.

loveslongnails · Answer

Only if I can't bury who deserves it! LOL

Blackcupcake · Answer

maybe…

Pete671 · Answer

wtf has it got to do with you?

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

No. I have anger issues :)

AngryCarl · Answer

Only when I take statins.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I would if I were the opposite of me

TallAnon · Answer

Nah, I have the normal amount of anger.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Use it in sports to be More competitive

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Nope

Hulk30 · Answer

no my temper is very slow-burnin

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Not now but I did I had a therapist for it

cootjuhh · Answer

nah im just always horny

Anonymous · Answer

yes i'm a taurus

Likes2drive · Answer

No I’m pretty calm and easy going

Fireguy17 · Answer

no, not at all.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes

Letmepickyourbrain · Answer

Weed helps

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