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Search Results: are kids a turnoff
Im seriously turned off would I be wrong to breakup?
I have my own place and a 4 year old from my previous marriage. I been dating this guy for 6 months things was okay at first but I'm seriously getting turned off he is 34 still living with his parents. He is very...
Anonymous
(25-29) As a clean (sexually and otherwise), independent childfree man... why do I attract bottom feeders?
Recently single and decided to rejoin a bunch of apps as well as a 1 month premium subscription to Hinge as it seems like the most "grown up" of the ones I've used in the past. I've noticed that I tend to get a lot of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, are cute girls attractive?
My friends often say I'm "kawaii", "cute", "adorable" and have a "childlike/girlish" attitude. Also people (specially older people) describe me with diminutive words despite me being 16 and people often take care of me or...
Anonymous
(18-24) To the men in the 30's and 40's, why dating\marrying a woman your age is a turnoff?
Like I'm a woman who turned 30 about more than a month ago.. And the fact is that I don't want kids and love my job a lot cause I'm good at it and earn money doing what I love the most. I love my materialistic life style...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Women, any advice for men trying to help their women lose weight?
Alright so straight to the point my girlfriend of 7 years is finally more than me in weight. I love her but she is getting too big. Like since our 2 kids she has been thick. I've been fine with it but enough is enough....
TeensToBoneAgent
Xper 3 Age: 31 What careers do you find attractive/unattractive for a partner to work in?
Of course most would just be happy if their partner had a job in general. But lets be creative and name some careers you find attractive. FOR MYSELF , I find it attractive if the guy works as a construction worker,...
Do you think I made the right decision to break up? Should I give him another chance?
I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year and half. It had nothing to do with how he treated me because he’s always been so kind and caring and affectionate towards me. My feelings for him just have not been...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, Is it really a major turnoff if a girl reads?
Everyone once in awhile I like to read a book. I’m not obsessed with books, but I do appreciate a story especially since I an aspiring writer myself. I still enjoy other things like movies, tv, video games and such,...
Serenity2014
Xper 6 Age: 30 Are you shocked when someone much older/younger than you rejects you because of your age?
Some people consider age gaps the norm but I dont. Its a turnoff to me and bothers me that dudes much younger/older often hit on me. Like its sad in my opinion that people consider it normal to date someone old enough to...
Is 3 children too many?
Is it a turnoff to meet a single woman who has 3 kids by the age of 34 with only a masters degree? How many kids is considered a lot?
Scarlett1988
Xper 3 Age: 37 East Asian Beauty Standards for Men
In today’s discussion, I would like to present to you the East Asian beauty standards for men. I previously covered the East Asian beauty standards for women, which you can read about here. I find that it’s more...
Is a saggy chest a turnoff for girls?
I've been quite overweight since I was a kid. Only recently (Im 23), I went through a strict diet and lost around 66 lbs. However, some fat on the lower part of my chest just won't go away. I even have some muscles there...
Anonymous
(25-29) I’m confused, why do some mothers leave the children with the father?
I mean when the parents split, the mother leaves the kid to the dad. When the dad is always working and hardly around to take care of a kid. I mean when the parents split, the mother leaves the kid to the dad. When the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do men really find it THAT unattractive whenever they hear a woman say she doesn't want kids?
Disclaimer: I'm not trying to call out on women who don't want kids. That is completely your choice and I respect that. And some men out there don't want kids either. But in this case, most of the men I've talked to,...
micheebee
Xper 2 Age: 29 When does masculinity become a turnoff?
Several girls say they want a man and by man they mean some dude who acts like one. Thing is, girls also complain about dudes acting like dudes and not being able to connect with them well. I mean lets go over a...
jer94lobo
Xper 4 Age: 32 The "Womens' Liberation" movement in the 70s made women more financially independent. But did it give them a more satisfying life?
This isn't meant to be a complete thesis in the topic. Just one aspect that hopefully gives some food for thought... In around the 1970s, the "women's liberation" movement "liberated" women. Instead of staying home...
MementoMori_
Yoda Age: 31 Guys, What would you think of girls like this if you saw them? Why are guys all over them?
What would you think if you saw two girls, one who’s in her 30s and another one who’s in her high 40s, they match each other’s outfits, have same platinum blonde hair, same hair styles, fake tans, fake nails, fake eye...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, is it a turnoff if a girl doesn't care about interacting with your kid?
I have no interest in children and I went on a date with a guy who brought his 1 year old daughter. I didn't know he had a daughter until I set up the date. Anyways, most people are always infatuated with other people's...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do some people still think it’s a good idea to catfish?
Last night I had a painfully awkward date on 3 accounts. 1. The girl ended up being much fatter than her pics were to the point where she looked like someone else and had a major double chin. 2. Just revealed to...
bloodmountain1990
Guru Age: 36 My wife left me and I have 2 little girls. Just trying to find my soulmate?
Is it a turnoff to woman that I have kids?
Ashton94weld
Xper 4 Age: 32 