What careers do you find attractive/unattractive for a partner to work in?

[AlexanderAnttila]

I take it politician might be a bit of a grey area for you? It's sort of all inclusive seeing as working at the county council revolves around management of all these things, architecture, sports, designs, city layouts, school etc. Just this day I summarized a missive to the county board regarding state- and local services suggesting on a course of action. Does that do anything for ya? ;P

I'm not trying to rain on your parade as well but I'm not certain you can *work* as a poet. I write amateur poetry and I can publish it, but make a living out of it? Doubtful.

But as for me; I like women who work with visions. Women who pursue work in organisations or even their own companies connected to feminine avenues like fashion or children's issues etc. I know one woman who does a lot of work ideally for "Help the Children" (Swedish organisation) and who often does mission trips to Africa and plays, dances and preaches to children, that just strikes a chord with my love for motherly women.

[SystemOfTheMachine]

I'm a poet and an actor, so I guess you'd love and hate me. 😂 I'm attracted to fellow poets and actors, as well as artists, dancers, musicians, scientists, soldiers, athletes. I really like anyone that isn't a corpo. I hate corps.

[mimi051998]

The person will always be more attractive than their careers. But if I had to choose I'll say for attractive: being a nurse, Doctor, police, paramedic, businessman, and chef. For unattractive: male stripper 🤢, garbage man, p**nstar, etc in those fields. * hint- for the people that might give me a 👎. I'm not in it for the money and I'm going to be a nurse soon 🙏🏾 so it would be cool to find a partner in that field too.

[flamiE]

Attractive as in “I want him” - labourers, some police officers? Lol, personal trainers etc, race drivers, mechanics
Attractive for dating would be anything that keeps his mind sharp just not a doctor! 😂 but like anything in IT, accountant, business owner maybe? If he’s actually doing something other that giving orders.
If I really like the guy he can make any career attractive tbh lol

[Finchie40]

Honestly Just the fact that she works and has a job is the turn on the me , but I guess there are some professions that she could have to make me feel proud for her for doing what she does , like a Nurse or a Doctor or a Vet a Business woman etc. So it really isn’t really the profession it’s her passion for her profession and how demanding her profession is that would make me
Respect her more, I know girls are different when it comes to this , considering most girls are attracted to a guys status , Girls are drawn to a guys status where guys aren’t really drawn to her status , Girls will be attracted to a guy that is a boss or a doctor or a lawyer , He doesn’t even have to be that good looking for her to be attracted to him , Girls just like to look up to a man that she feels has power over others , but what cracks me up is you take that same guy and put him in a janitor outfit she will lose all interest in him , Where guys don’t do that to girls , we are drawn to her beauty and her personality and don’t really give a shit what her status is

[Jjpayne]

For starters, while I'm totally for women doing a man's job, construction, garbage and sewage are just not glamorousBut a fun attractive job is a model or signer/musician

[ShortCircuit]

I really don't care, as long as she makes enough money to pay her half of the bills, works no more than 50 hrs/wk, the job is ethical, and it doesn't require her to be disloyal (like acting or sex work).

But I guess if I were to give a few examples of jobs that might make her more appealing to me than others, it would be a nurse, chef, writer, something in tech, or something in the game or film industry.

And some examples of jobs that would make her less appealing would be anything in the public sector (I always say "fuck the government", but I don't want to literally fuck the government lol), farming, meat processing, or anything blue collar.

Any other job I would most likely have a completely neutral attitude toward.

[JDavid25]

Attractive: Housewife (even if it's not a career), administrative assistant, chef, yoga instructor 😏, human resources, Fitness guru, IT computer specialist, politician (even though most are scummy, there's a lot of assertive Attractive women in the field.), and Lawyers
Actresses and singers are okay, they can be attractive but they tend to be divas which I don't like.
Porn stars, store clerks, strippers, call girls, construction worker, nurses, competitive body builders (even if some of then look nice.) and bus drivers are careers that are less attractive to me..

[Jake1415]

Why wouldn't you date a guy in any of the careers you mentioned you didn't want to? Also, would you wanna date an electrician? Finally, I don't have an exact career that would be attractive but I wouldn't want someone who works in sports teams because I'm not into sports and if that person is into sports that they would probably talk about sports all the time or most of the time... Maybe someone who at least shares the same interest or knows how to do something I'm interested in. For example: I'm interest a kills in computers so while they wouldn't need to have a career in computers to be attractive, if someone knew their stuff about them and had a degree for it... Then I would be kinda cool. Plus, if they have a degree in general, that that would be attractive to me because that means they took the time to earn it...

[Gedaria]

I like your thinking. I look at it if she is happy doing what she does.
I found a lot of girls enjoy doing thy manual occupations.
I had a girlfriend who worked in a bank
After a typical 8hr day she was so stressed and close to tears.
But she worked with me in the workshop , she just couldn't get enough of it. Her best bit was working on the forge.
After 6 months she had packed in her job and was working with me full time. We were together for about 18 months by the end that she had set up and got her own black Smith's shop, doing ornamental stuff.
She looked so sexy in her overalls.

[Levin]

Same standards I apply to myself.

I have no preference as long as she does no evil.

Evil jobs include those overriding one's conscience in order to comply, follow orders, to do harm to others.

Therefore, police officers and those in the army, plus increasingly medical professionals. Plus the soulless corporate lot.

[CrazyGirl2]

I don’t think any “specific“ career is attractive or unattractive. I think if somebody has a job and they’re working hard, how on earth could that be unattractive? In fact I think the only career that I would consider unattractive would be career unemployment!

[jgokgotit]

The most attractive careers women can have in my opinion are teachers, personal trainers, yoga instructors, first responder, military, medical/nursing and massage therapists. The careers I find unattractive are politicians and anything to do with feminism or liberal agendas.

[Ninjazzed]

Unattractive: Butcher, garbage man, dishwasher, dog catcher, mailman, truck driver, policeman, car salesman.

Anything that’s non-consistent too.

Attractive: Doctor, surgeon, lawyer, software developer, therapist, screenwriter, athlete, paramedic, engineer, fitness trainer, pilot, actor, model.

[Almost10inch4funlol]

Every real mans dream is to be the soul provider and the women being ambitious in her dreams what ever it may be. For her to have no pressure to contribute financially to the household but have a great drive towards her own goals rather as a stay at home or a profession she’s passionate about. In today’s economy it’s very difficult to get to this point though 😂 but i personality think anything that she’s passionate about is sexy.

[lucas262]

Iv always planned to be the provider in the house, never spent too much time on what she'd do, think it'd be hot if she was a nurse, or teacher, I think her passion for her job would be attractive if it involves helping people, social worker thay kind of thing it displays a female type of compassion as in taking care of people, women find a man's ability to make money or provide or his ability to fix shit attractive. No per se the job itself but I could be wrong

[iFarted]

Attractive
Anything medical
Small business owner
White collar work like accountants and architects

Unattractive
Anything sex related (She'd still be physically attractive but overall less attractive to me in this field)
Certain construction jobs (More brainless jobs like general laborer, drywaller, plastering, etc.. If she did electrical work or finish carpentry it's sort of hot.)

[jennifer_bloom]

I find male therapists to be super attractive as well as medical research scientists and engineers and STEM professors but realistically, even a grocery bagger could attract me if I like his personality

[slatyb]

Why should welding be dangerous? Does he work on high steel? Underwater?

The only careers I would find unattractive would be anything unethical like selling low value products for high prices, like timeshare condominiums or some MLM.

[Hans222]

I always wanted to be a commercial pilot. Due to color blindness that was not possible. I ended up doing economic studies, specializing in marketing. In the end I ended up in finance haha... but I'm happy with my career.

[WesBrewer]

Most attractive: anything Business and higher up job-like. Attractive: any job. Unattractive: any job related to nudity, sex, or/and selling of the body.

[Bat-Perv]

Careers i guess lingerie model, cheerleader, nurse, nanny. Best one has got to be cook. A buddy of mine started dating a chef recently, has put on 2 stone weight.

[Wiredone]

Id find it attractive if she was an interior designer, clothing designer, a nurse or doctor, an architect, or writer. Jobs I find unattractive for women are anything to do with acting, entertainment industry, construction, and legal.

[alice55]

Attractive : military, police
Unattractive : I would say administration work in general. Not a fan of someone in a suit sitting all day at a computer.

[ragequeen]

Anything but stripper, escort, business (business people are the worst and shadiest), circus clown and mime. Anything else is bearable.

[OlderAndWiser]

I would not be particularly attracted to women who work in traditionally male jobs such as construction worker or auto mechanic.

[lanadelrey25]

I think jobs in the FBI or CIA are sexy, same with firefighters, professors and doctors. I think construction, grocery stores and fast food places are unattractive.

[Smurphanie]

Business owner/operator ! Owning a business to me is very sexy... the only thing I find to be just as attractive would probably be a masuese.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

The person themselves is more important than their career as long as they don't let their career cone between the relationship...

[nodnol32]

If she's a lawyer, businesswoman, artist, beautician, thats attractive. Unattractive: nurse/doctor, teaching, loads more but i can't seem to remember for now.

[Marco10]

Any career (with the exception of an undertaker) could be attractive, If the person who’s doing it does it with passion. It’s the spark in their eyes and the excitement that you can feel that makes it so.

[_no_one_]

If she has a job then it's attractive enough already, i have no such job preferences for my partner but if she is technical field then we might understand each other better.

[Tstrbrainer]

I'm not sure about that.
I have a huge teacher fetish/fantasy, whatever people call it.
So that can either be a turn on or turn off for a potential long term partner.

Definitely a turn on for a hookup

[Apple1996]

Most attractive has to be military, first responders and doctors.

[Anpu23]

I like artists, muscicians, writers. Basically creators. Pretty much every lover I've had falls into these categories.

[DesolateRain]

Unattractive: anything that has to do with sex work.

Attractive: Probably any other job.

[Pink2000]

Attractive
construction worker
doctor
lawyer
Rapper

Unattractive
porn star
server
CNA

[lilyanony1]

One that pays the bills and allows us to have a life. With my salary alongside it.

[FakeName123]

Women in male jobs are unattractive. I mean, to each their own, but I don't wanna date them. I prefer feminine women.

[DanaeAdam5]

I find attractive if they are a painter, a doctor, a lawyer, or even better a psychologist

[jamesgoldman]

Accountant, businesswoman, estate agent, antique dealer, jeweller and a higher end bartender

[Alyssa11]

I’m gonna be honest and say I have a doctor fetish. There’s something so attractive about doctors — they’re literally saving lives and it takes a very strong willed and determined person.

[Smoothing]

I am not that choosy though I would prefer a woman working within the STEM area over all others.

[worldscolide]

The only ones i would find unattractive in a partner is if they revolved around sex. Like if she was any kind of sex worker.

[ElvenMr]

Anything where she has to dress in a specific way could be sexy as hell, unless it's something messy hah.
Don't think there is any unattractive careers, unless you count pornstar.

[Mehzmeh]

That is a really good question. I am guessing a prostitute. Lol. That is all I, could think of. Everything you listed. I most definitely wouldn't have a problem with. As long as they are happy.

[Lesbianlust]

People working with raw sewerage is usually a bit of a turnoff and does nothing to engage me in a conversation about their career. It’s the same with guys in the undertaking business, but I guess it’s the biggest stiffy they ever see.

[UnicornU]

Teaching is sexy but not everyone look sexy while teaching

[chubbycrow]

as a dude
not pornstar or sexual cosplay, I don't want a gil who's getting fucked by other guys
for attractive, model, fitness model
other than that career really doesn't matter
but maybe very masculine things like a female lineman, no,

[chHaynes]

I think a business type woman pretty attractive but a woman that is a stripper it shows off your body what not is unattractive to me

[ETfoneh0me101]

I guess I never really thought much about it. Thinking about it though, a nurse sounds like the most attractive. That or a professional masseuse.

[yucel_eden]

Personality is more than a career so I care about that.

But lawyers, psychologists snd people in marketing attract more often.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Professions don’t play a role in turning my sex drive into System Overdrive. It’s all about the variable itself.

[AkshiJanjua]

Stripper, pornstar, prostitute
In mainstream career maybe actress or some celebrity as they get too much attention and i may feel intimidated

[Diversity_Hire]

Just a reminder to post a real reply when I can give it some thought.

[EaterPeter]

Prprogressive = attractive
Stalled progress = unattractive

[the_sinner]

Attractive: having a business of her own/ running the family business.


Unattractive: if she’s into that multi level marketing/ scam shit.

[msc545]

Lawyer, Physician, Psychologist, College Professor, Nurse, Teacher, Architect are some that are all very attractive to me. Too many others to list.

[Phoenix98]

I don't really care to much about careers to be honest so long as your not a hooker, stripper or anything like that, don't care.

[Avicenna]

Over half of my girlfriends have been or later became teachers, so that’s obviously my type, but accountants, linguists and engineers are also great.

[Meldrum]

Let's see, unattractive? Septic Tank cleaner.

Attractive? Hedge fund manager.

[Maspolomas]

It wouldn’t matter to me as long as she isn’t a hooker lol I would be happy with her having any job

[MrCreep]

I don't know never really thought of any in that way. I don't think it's matters too much

[Trooper205]

Honestly, I think any job would be just fine. I wouldn't mind any Career choice for Her. (Except stripping)