Most attractive job for opposite gender?

[Anonymous]

Engineer

Doctor

Lawyer

Investment banker

Accountant

Scientist

Other (mention it)

[MCheetah]

In my opinion, private nurses are some of the sexiest jobs for women. It shows they're smart (to a degree), as well as compassionate and care about helping people. Many hospital nurses are fat, ugly, overworked, and grouchy, so that's why I say private nurses or nurses not working in city hospitals.

I don't like female doctors, though. They try too hard to be men and think the industry is overcrowded with males and no one takes them seriously because they are a woman. Female doctors tend to be jealous and spiteful, in my experience.

[Asker]

There are many female doctor I don't know many doctor like you are describing

[Asker]

also doctor earn more than nurse and they're smarter

[MCheetah]

Education and career has nothing to do with intelligence. Most doctors aren't even "smart." They're just educated, since that's literally what their job is.

[blank_expression]

The best career for the future as we will be living off-grid since there is no power, will be frying up hog-jowls and grits, barefoot and pregnant. She has a green thumb and keeps the weeds and wildlife out of the garden. She is a great markswoman, and can down her own game and butcher it out. She, splits wood and can keep a fire going. She knows had to preserve, stockpiles, and conserves getting ready for the big one. This will be the best future career for those that continue.

[Anonymous]

My husband is a software developer (which is kind of like an engineer) so I'll go with that one

[acepillager]

It’s nothing like an engineer lmao. Is that what he told you?

[MTC29]

I always advise young women to consider an engineering career. The duties of male and female will be identical within their specialty, and I regret to have to say this, but so will their pay rates, which are based on job class and not chromosomes.

[rcljr]

Yes ladies, it’s all about the money… too bad in all those professions your “ mate” will have a pot belly and a cardiac condition by 45. I’m 58, work outdoors, make good money AND I have a six pack and a tan.

[bamesjond0069]

All of those are huge turn offs for a woman to do. I prefer like babysitter or waitress. Nurse could be ok too. Something caring and that she won't have college debt or be tied to her job she can quit or move no big deal.

[Asker]

Assume that they don't have college debt anyway since they earn good money they can pay it back

[Asker]

Nurses work for long hour (through nurses income is good) I don't see how they're better than data scientist or actuarial or software engineer who have work life balance and who can work from home especially software engineer can also quit and do freelancing or work from home (since there skills are always in demand they can actually go back to work after Kids are old)

[Asker]

Babysitter and waitress (that is minimum wage job and you need to work for many hours) think about it what kind of girls are doing it (single mother's lazy one from poor family)

[Asker]

Also babysitter and waitress can cheat

[bamesjond0069]

"Assume that they don't have college debt anyway since they earn good money they can pay it back" this doesn't take into account time value of money vs youth and fertility value to men in dating. A 23 year old nurse is more attractive for dating purposes than a 33 year old doctor who paid off her degree. Also assuming rich parents paid for any and all schooling, doctor while it is caring, is not an ideal job still. Too much responsibility it gets in the way of family life vs waitress.

"Nurses work for long hour (through nurses income is good) I don't see how they're better than data scientist" caring jobs are more attractive. A woman who loves taking care of people and being sweet to them is more attractive than a woman who wants to sit on a computer and code all day.

"Babysitter and waitress (that is minimum wage job and you need to work for many hours) think about it what kind of girls are doing it (single mother's lazy one from poor family)" never heard of a babysitter working "many hours". Usually they are working minimal hours. What does job have to do with single mothers or family situation? You honestly think all waitresses are single moms with bad families? Id suggest to get out in the world more.

"Also babysitter and waitress can cheat" oh and a lawyer can't? If my girlfriend is a babysitter and she cheats she is going to go to jail. Just think about that for a second to realize how much you're not making sense.

[Asker]

Lol I mean cheat with the father lol I see it

[bamesjond0069]

Actually usually career women cheat more than women like that. Just because a woman has more time and flexibility is not what makes women cheat. If you get a day off are you going to cheat on your husband? OR if you're and attorney working a special case long hours and a short business trip with a highly successful attorney from another firm who is super hot and makes 10x your already big salary... is that more likely to make a woman cheat? Hmmmm

[Asker]

you are thinking that a woman who want to become data scientist or software engineer or actuarian can't be caring maybe they did because it is high paying job they are smart or work from home option (easy to take care of kids (while women who is doing baby sitting or waitress work is caring (most do it because they can't find a good paying job many are teenager mother who are doing it for supporting their kids) if she like kids than she would take care of her cousin babies rather than charging people for it as for waitress (they flirt with client for some extra tips but that is better than coding)

[Asker]

yes but what if she is a actuarian data scientist or engineering working from home (she won't even go out and won't cheat)

[Asker]

Why do you see all these mail order bride cheating on their husband and divorcing then for half of their money? They're not educated

[bamesjond0069]

Yes but i assume a waitress will quit and be a homemaker eventually. Usually women with careers do not want to quit. I dont want to take that chance. Also like i said its time value. A 20 yr old with no job is far more attractive than a 30 year old with literally any job. Some of those careers you mentioned such as doctor take so long to even get into a woman with that job is already not ideal based just on age alone.

[Asker]

Well that women is working from so why does it matter and I see so many guys who want to go 50/50 so a girl need money for it

[Asker]

why? I am assuming that they're dating someone around their age (maybe classmates it is not like that they're dating young men) her long term boyfriend for example (getting married after becoming doctor)

[Asker]

Data scientist software engineering don't take many year (actually you can learn it on your and become one in late teens or early 20s.

[bamesjond0069]

"yes but what if she is a actuarian data scientist or engineering working from home" ok but it doesn't add to her attractiveness. No job is attractive for a woman really so its basically just which job is the least unattractive. Women care what jobs men have. Men dont give 2 shits what job or income a woman had. Its essentially irrelevant... unless it gets in the way.

"all these mail order bride cheating" i dont think we talked about mail order brides at all. So im not sure how thats relevant. Women dont usually seek out men to cheat with when they do cheat. Its more about meeting "eligible" men vs having time to do so.

[bamesjond0069]

"I see so many guys who want to go 50/50 so a girl need money for it" i didn't realize you were seeking out broke men. Then yes your career and income is highly important. Its only successful men who do not care at all. Broke men prefer sugar mamas so whatever earns you the most.

[Asker]

No I date guys in college (I don't expect them to pay for dates even if they have rich parents they should not ask their parents for money for date)

[Asker]

Most doctor's are married with other doctors so not sure if it is true that successful men don't care

[Asker]

Also you had said about 20 year old girl being more attractive I feel same about 20 year old guys (most guys in their 30s have receding hairline and they are fat (I can't date someone I don't find attractive) so maybe women feel same way

[Asker]

Also what is wrong in dating broke men? I love music would it be wrong if I tried to date a guy trying to become popular singer if he is cute? even if he don't have that much money? he is ambitious and passionate which is super attractive

[bamesjond0069]

Well then props to you. Most women complain about broke men and being their sugar mama. You will have tons of men to choose from if you become a doctor and would happily date those men and pay the bills. You got it all figured out. Just dont be a doctor and then decide in 10 years you dont like broke men because then you will be in the same position as the single cat ladies.

And id say most women are into significantly older men. So while thats not your thing just realize your not the typical girl. Just like most girls dont like broke men but you do.

[Asker]

why broke men if guys I am dating are my classmate? or my friends friends (most people are very successful in my social circle?

[Asker]

I don't like broke men lol I like guys with ambition and passion and also smart (how they like significantly older men? average age gap I USA is 3 year and average age gap in Japan is 1.2 year average age gap in sweden is 1.8 average age gap in turkey is 3 year average age gap in Africa in West Africa is 6.6 and central Africa is 6 so seem like women like slightly older men in countries which are not that poor and women can work only date old guys in African countries where they don't get education and getting job is hard

[Asker]

I see many complain about women being gold digger or about them losing money in divorce etc way more

[Asker]

I think that I am a typical girl most girls I know also date classmate or friends friends

[Asker]

Why men in dating app lie about their age? If old men are attractive? Dont toy
You think that maybe you are projecting? https://honey. nine. com. au/you/men-lying-about-age-on-dating-apps/141b83e0-e158-426b-96e4-812168d9566f

[Asker]

How old men are attractive? they're bald and fat (they also carry baggage like ex wife and kids and also erectile dysfunction (so bad sex) what exactly is their appeal? and you won't fit in his social circle (his friends are talking about their kids job while you are in college) you like Olivia rodgiro while he listen to some boomer singer or see boomer movies

[Asker]

Let's say money is the reason aren't they only rich because they're old? For example my cousin is earning more than her husband compared to when he was around her age and they have small age gap lol after some year she would earn more

[Asker]

also since he is old won't he retire before? So you would have to support him? also you would have to be his care taker (when he is in 70s) you would spend decades alone since women live more than 5 year than men.

[Asker]

aren't more men more controlling because they're better in lying? also they cheat more and many don't want to remary or want more kids (so you stay a forever girlfriend) there is reason why they're single tbh and liking young girls is big red flag

[Asker]

Please give me one positive aspect of dating old men I don't see any at least in long term

[bamesjond0069]

Thats good. Good luck. there's a lot of women who try that and then complain that the 32 year old doctor dates a 20 year old nurse. But you're sure that won't be you... good luck.

[bamesjond0069]

You obviously are a very special kind of woman. Why dont you ask your girlfriends? Im 34 and i haven't dated anyone over 24 in years and years and years... way too many younger girls interested in me to even bother with an older girl. So I don't know exactly why but you should ask girls.

[Asker]

Maybe because you attract girls with daddy issues or those who are gold digger

[Asker]

My friends and cousin usually are dating guys of same age or slightly older ( 2 to 4 year older) maybe because all of them are rich and don't need a men so they go after young attractive guys?

[Asker]

and also they have very good relationship with their families and father (don't have daddy issues)

[Asker]

Just tell me why age gap in country where woman are able to get education and job is smaller than in countries where they are not able to? if woman find old men attractive than it shouldn't be but maybe this pattern show that only desperate poor young woman like old men not educated rich young woman.

[Asker]

I also did a reddit survey (see it woman like guys around same age or slightly older it's men who actually like young girls)
Do you prefer younger or older or same age? ↗

[bamesjond0069]

I never dated a gold digger before. Those girls are trash.

[Asker]

How do you know that those girls are not after your money?

[Asker]

It sound like they are also ever heard of cheating or dead bedroom problem (just because you are rich don't mean that girls would be into you ) I see so many mens complaining about it it happened because they marry girls who don't find them attractive so doctor going after 20 year old nurse would have this problem (and also losing half of his money after divorce)

[Asker]

but you don't still agree that women don't like old men? I even ended up showing survey

[convo_king89]

I like it’s cute when a women does something we’re you need to be attractive but somewhat smart and you can live off of, like a model, brand embassorder, secretary,

[Asker]

How you need to be attractive for secretary?

[convo_king89]

It’s the face of the company. You got to make a good impression

[ChrisMaster69]

Tbh any really.

Engineering and Legal are good ones

[AlexanderAnttila]

A female scientist does sound attractive to me. I'm attracted to intelligence.

[Joshua0213]

Whatever, really doesn't matter to me cause I make enough that she wouldn't even have to much

[Asker]

aren't you 19 rich parents? Job don't only mean money it also show intelligence and ambitions and how hard working they're and their passion for their work.(if it was also about money than I would have said rich parents)

[Asker]

It also show compatibility if both of you are in same field since you understand each other and that job probably also share many hobbies and have similar personality

[Joshua0213]

Nah nothing from my parents, my parents lived in the hood. Just working every day since I was 16 and a mechanic. Make 60k a year plus investing in stocks make a pretty good amount especially last march

[MountAverage]

How about one that fulfills them and makes them happy?

[Anonymous]

None of those would make a women attractive. It is somewhat possible that she is attractive in spite of one of those jobs but overall I would expect her to be a bitch if she was a Dr. or Lawyer

[007kingifrit]

a woman with no career is the most attractive. we want you to have time for us

[On_cloud_wine]

What percentage of guys feel this way

[007kingifrit]

@On_cloud_wine almost all really

[nickaboy]

Housemuziek but offcourse made mom by me a close 2nd would nurse

[Anonymous]

As a make, a females occupation is unimportant as long as it isn’t a sex trade.

[Asker]

Not for all guys many are choosing doctors maybe I should have wrote more occupation like business woman or real estate agent and broker probably more guys would have chosen

[Opinion Owner]

Nah. Honestly most guys only care if you are attractive or not.

[wankiam]

im not attracted to what job they do

[Robert_]

Politician or lawyer.

[Asker]

It is because they're smart and earn good money (lawyer do it usually only if they study in top law school)

[Robert_]

Oh yeah brains are very attractive. And I do love someone willing to have an argument/discussion. However I wouldn't like someone with a STEM degree.

[Asker]

Lol why not a stem degree?

[Robert_]

Because I have an engineering degree and I am an engineer. I wouldn't want the same style of discussion at home as I would have at work.

[Asker]

also accountant in a big firm or actuarian or top sales person or investment banker or pilot or air traffic controller or broker or
project manager or someone working in a top consultancy or successful business owner (all have very high salary and you don't need stem degree to become one)

[Asker]

Lol what about a engineer from different branch? example if you are software engineer than a mechanical engineer. also a engineer can have many artistic hobby so your engineer so can be into dancing or rock climbing and talk about many interesting things

[Robert_]

I know but you were asking for most attractive.

However an accountant and actuarian do do a lot of maths. Investment bankers, consultants and project managers do often have STEM degrees. The pilot and air traffic controller have a very prescribed job that is based on engineering and mathematics.

So politician and lawyer ( could also be paralegal) would still be the most attractive to me.

[Asker]

and many of them don't still what about a successful broker or sales person?

[Robert_]

And about other type of engineering. I always feel like people from STEM have very logic based style of argumentation.

I really find it very interesting to have a conversation with someone who argues from a place of empathy, conviction and ethics.

[Robert_]

With the broker or sales person I might feel it was more difficult to let my guard down. I would have an initial feeling that they are selling an idea of them selve.

I must add that with politician I would have to add government policy makers and diplomats.

[Asker]

what about portfolio and Financial Manager

[Asker]

or professor

[Asker]

Or Transportation, storage, and distribution managers

[Robert_]

Honestly I don't really care for the financial sector.

[Asker]

What about Construction managers? Also many people in real estate earn so much

[Asker]

Administrative services and facilities managers also earn good money lol I have a feeling that you would love art director

[Robert_]

It is not about the money, but about the brains.

[Nik1hil]

Doctor..
Preferably a psychologist...

[Alejandro3000]

I find real estate agents attractive.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Testing software engineer

[Dylpickleb1st]

Mis Clicked But I Choose Other

[karaspara]

Doctor

[acepillager]

Gold digger

[karaspara]

@acepillager How's that? They are all high earning jobs you twat

[acepillager]

You’re not attracted to doctors because they save lives. You’re attracted to them because they can get you that G Wagon you’ve always wanted

[karaspara]

@acepillager Whatever you are a imbecile and probably a virgin haha I support myself you loser

[Joker_]

Lawyer

[JesseJayNeak]

Doctor or nurse