Videos: Break Up & Divorce

Every guy I have ever dated has never said they wanted to break up or end the relationship. Each has tried to be mean or ignore me instead of just telling me. I'd really rather the guy just say, "I'm not into you," "I don't have feelings for you" or something. I think I'd probably thank the guy if he told me this! It's ok that it's not working for you. It happens that way sometimes. By making a girl wonder, worry, and not giving her closure you just make her feel foolish and thereby a little angry. I wouldn't feel anger if the person just told me straight up what they want or don't want. Please answer, why do guys avoid telling a girl when they want to end the relationship?

I'm a pretty calm person and rarely get into arguments with people, so it can't be that they think I will "make a scene" or yell at them. I've never even yelled at a boyfriend!