Questions: Dating

I am an average looking slim built guy with kind of short height and visible baldness on my head.

I do sometimes meet and go on dates with women... But I have noticed these women are pretty plain , kind of dark skinned than the others of the same race , have not so shiny smooth skin as other women seem to have in pics or otherwise , look really plain from close.

Is it that I attract kind of below average women because I am that way too... or is it that I find them unattractive and sexually unappealing because I find women who are unapproachable and distant from me sexy and attractive?

I met this girl on tinder a couple weeks ago we had a good time, hung out twice, and had sex once. After the second date we made arrangements to hang out the following week. 2 days after we met, I went on a road trip with another girl named Brenda I’ve been casual seeing.

During the whole road trip Brenda was going through my phone which stopped from texting the tinder girl. When I got home from the road trip I messaged the tinder girl about our plans. Tinder girl told me she made other plans thinking I lost interest, due to “lack of communication”.

I was explained to her that I’m still interested and she agreed that she’s still interested and wants to continue, but. It’s been hard to regain her interest. She refused to FaceTime me a couple times, and yesterday we had plans and she said she has a cold. Is she blowing me off? Should I cut my losses?

If you got opinions put them

Men , would you date a woman who makes more money than you? be honest please..

I feel like this is inappropriate but I am open to having my mind changed by a rational mind. Would you be fine with your girlfriend/boyfriend doing this?