Polls: Dating

So, im 30f, I've lost a lot of weight and im recently single. My biggest fear in starting a relationship is my boobs, its my biggest insecurity.. they used to be big like really big, but now that i lost a lot of weight (70kg) they are still big but they sag down my belly. I hate looking myself naked in the mirror because i look like shit with them.. im against getting butchered and getting surgery, but im looking for other options thats non invasive. Ladies if you have any suggestions for let me know.

I read about the “are we dating the same guy” in an article about the groups being a potential lawsuit waiting to happen. I joined the ones in my city cause I was curious but after reading through a lot of posts, I genuinely shocked at how unhinged the posts are. With one post calling for the police to be contacted because a guy was really rude to her in messages ( he called her fat). The odd post was helpful, one was about a guy who had a string of criminal convictions for domestic violence but the majority are cray cray esp the ones in my city.

So have you joined them, have they helped you? Are you a man, Have you ever been a victim of one of these groups? I’m genuinely curious cause I can see these groups ruining someone’s life.

29F and I feel like if I was truly attractive, I would get approached by guys in person but I never do. I get told that guys look at me but they never actually do anything about it, I’m told I’m attractive and I’m learning to like myself more but I can’t help but feel like if I really was hot shit I would always be in a relationship or actively approached by guys. But I’m not, only on the apps 🥴

Is this a bad idea or good idea? I’m pretty sure I don’t have a chance with him anyway, and I doubt he likes me back. but I am started to be attracted to someone else.