Would you only date someone perfect?

[Anonymous]

Whoever I date has to be stunningly beautiful or I don’t want it. 10/10. She has to be wow.

Guys have told me like I’m basically the whole package. So I want the best and nothing else.
Like I’m not gonna waste it on a 6 or 7.

Yes I’m similar

No I’m not

[SueShe]

I would date someone that is compatible with me and not someone that is perfect. Perfection does not exist. The person may be nice looking but that does not make him/her perfect. Perfection is in the eye of the beholder and not in the one who thinks or believes he/she is perfect because someone has once told him/her that she/he was good looking.

When talking about perfection, people only see the exterior shell of a person but seldom do they see the inner beauty. A shell fades with time and this nice look, this 6 pack, these breasts and whatnot are soon fading away. What is left after 30+ years from those good looks? Right, absolutely nothing.

On the other hand, if a person has a good character, personality and intellect, these assets will usually remain a lifelong. Those are, in my eyes, perfect people or at least people that come close to what I would consider perfect. Not the vain ones that solely have to rely on their looks.

[_Maya_]

Anyone who considers themselves perfect is lying to themselves and others. Already they are not perfect because they are arrogant. I see you have another account. Does this not get boring to you at all? You keep claiming you are the whole package or whatever. I would think that someone that is the whole package would not go anon and put a pfp up so you can flaunt your flawless self. That is just my opinion tho. No I don't expect my partner to be perfect. I would be a fool to do that. Everyone has imperfections and flaws and a lot of that is completely subjective. What I consider personality strengths in myself might totally turn off someone else. Now who is right? Me or the person judging?

[sawno]

The whole point of dating someone is finding out if she is perfect for me right? Even someone who is higher than a 10 for me is not going to be that right away. Ill find her appealing, she will have immediate qualities I look for but I have no idea how much she truly matches me. Then as you grow together and you uncover more about her personality, the true nature of the compatibility is revealed.

So if I was only going to date someone who is a 10 for me I wouldn't ever find anyone, because my starting number is never a 10. And I know my match is the same, she will consider me a possible 10 just like I consider her a possible 10 but she will be reserved on how good I truly am as she is getting to know me / tests me out a bit.

[OtterMan68]

perfect for you may not be perfect for someone else

[Abbycado]

So guy's you hang around like your package? XD