As a former male exotic dancer in my hey day, I had no issues or jealousy of dating female strippers, no matter how many lap dances they gave. As long as there was no sex, I did not care.
But dating escorts and women with sugar daddies, that was a problem.
I almost dated a female escort that I had seen regularly. She kept getting cheaper and cheaper with me. She even took me to her expensive home where I met her mother, her son, and daughter. Her children were quite young. I had only met them once. The daughter actually hugged me and said she loved me without even knowing me. I think I could have easily been a mentor or father figure to those kids. What drove me away was my lady friend wanted to shove dildos or sex toys up my butt on my 30th birthday and I had no interest in her nefarious plans whatsoever. Lol
We lost touch shortly after that. But I have tried to reach out to her from time to time.
No because it make me question what loyalty is worth and because to me honest I don´t know if I could have respect that does a lot of stuff just for money.
If he worked as a p🤨rn model, star, or any part of the sex industry, I wouldn't exactly mind but I would need to know the guy's personality first and why they're doing it. It's a pink flag to me, not exactly red. If the guy has a sugar momma, my only concern would be how many hours he's doing that for. Only fans, being a p🤨rn star, selling pictures (or items) would be the only thing that wouldn't really raise a concern for me nor would I mind it as much. Mostly the guy's personality and the time it takes would be my concern, I dont care whether or not it's "cheating".
Everything but the sugaring for present would be fine.
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u Such a woman would not be a good match for me.
Absolutely not. Nor could I ever see them as anything but predatory/scumbags. Even drug dealers aren't as bad as OF thots. I couldn't even be real life friends with someone who still did that kind of half-assed "work."
I would not. I don't care that people do those things but it does let me know we are not compatible. To me those are all lazy ways to make money. If they take an easy short term approach on making money what else will they take an easy short term approach on? Children? Long term finances? Relationship? To me it's just a red flag.
I busted my ass off for all my money and worked out hard to get sexy. I am not going to settle for fat feminist sex worker. That's why my girlfriend is a Is religious traditionalist virgin till marriage and in good shape. Every doesn't have to accept you for who you are.
I have dated dancers in the past.
I know a few girls that have Only Fans, helped them out with their product management etc.
not a problem really, with most things it comes down to the person and not what they do.
Nah. The idea of not having to work is enticing, but the constant thought of being with someone that everyone has easy monetary (and, as is the case for most of the internet, free) access to is pretty repulsive.
As a longtime non sexual sugar daddy and obedient pay pig, I can usually circumvent this common pitfall by emphasizing my genuine desire to serve both the woman and her boyfriend or husband.
i would not date them. because this people are like parasites they only want benefit from all kind of relationships and meanwhile are toxic
Hard pass. That's not loyal behaviour. It's basically a form of pornography.
Those are all dealbreakers. I don’t meet women that do that stuff anyway. .
I wouldn't date someone with a sugar daddy/momma
I would date someone with an of
I don't know about stripper
Sure as long as they were honest it doesn't matter what they do for a living
No I would not date them.
And yes thats cheating.
I would. As long as they are loyal then I see no problem with it. Fuck what everyone else thinks.
Yeah i could probably do it as long as she only loved me :P
Their past is their past. If I’m with her NOW…that’s what matters
No way. Thats disgusting. To do those things they are the lowest of low quality women possible.
Yes, I would date her, as long as we were honest with each other
I would "date" her orally, vaginally, rectally.
Depends on the person, the context and the trust-level.
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