Polls: Dating

I did a social experiment for women to rate me
In real life women rateme 7 or 8 regardless of race

On dating apps they rate me 7 only usually white and black

Anonymous people on the internet says am a 1 or 2

Which is more accurate?

This girl on Reddit messaged me. She is 25, a virgin, and never had a boyfriend. She is a Christian woman. Do you think I am being catfished?

Guy 1 - he thinks he is „alpha“, treats other men as if they are his contenders and below him, boasts about having a big d i c k, is packed with muscles, has way more money, acts like he's the “sh-t“.

Guy 2 - laid back, treats other men like brothers, doesn't boast about his achievements unless asked about, not a gym freak but has multiple relaxational hobbies including swimming, doesn't have as much money since he was growing up poor but is completely autonomous, independent, can live by himself and is building up his career still. Oh and he does chores, can Cook, gives massages. Knows 2 and a half languages and has been to a few countries.

Neither of them is ugly. Their personalities however are distinct.

I was about 19 then. I am 27 almost 28 now.

after a few back and forth messages

Him: “What are your plans for this fine Saturday?”

her: “I met a friend and went food shopping and now I just got home, want to cook a little and chill with my cat”

him: “Ok. Enjoy the rest of the day and nice chatting. Let me know if you’re up for a brief chat on the phone at some point or just want to meet for a drink next week. 🙂”

One of the major points a lot guys and especially the incel types on here will say is that one major reason it is harder for guys to get dates than girls is simply due to the smaller pool of options guys have to choose from then girls.

so why not ask you directly? Do you feel like you have a large pool of guys to choose from to date? And if so do you feel thats a benefit for you girls?

I think I’m really attractive and made a good profile. Good pics, well written - saying I’m looking to meet new people

I then randomly switched the profile to men. So many matches in minutes. Some of them even looked like models.
Most started the convo. Many didn’t even appear to be gay.

Whereas with girls it’s always quiet. Very few matches.

Should I go gay now?

I do a lot. No one is perfect. But every pretty girl I meet has some kind of red flag. The nicest girls I’ve met always are taken.

I got turned off a lot from first glance by what women wear. A lot of girls these days wear really revealing/slutty clothing with their boobs popping out etc. It’s rare to find a classy girl

Remember men, women can have all 3 or your other that you want to put, but I’m limiting what is the most valued to you?

please if you pick “other” explain :)

new poll tomorrow.