Polls: Dating

ALMOST everyone will say personality is more important than looks, money, status etc.

okay... no problem

basically ugly broke losers are only rejected for their bad personalities. if you can't get a partner while you're an ugly broker loser, you should work on your personality the most

we heard all the time, "it's not all men, not all women" okay fine

so, when large age gap relationships like these exist (let's say she's 18-25 and he's 20+ years older), why isn't personality the first brought up?

why is it that looks, money, status don't matter but we assume these large age gap couples are only with each other because of looks, money, status and not because of personality?

why is that the first thought for most people who see these large age gap relationships as either weird or gross to begin with? why is it impossible to consider both partners may have great personalities?

you can claim you personally don't care about looks, money, status but why are you so quick to assume others do especially in these large gap relationships?

I don't want the idealistic answer. be 100000% honest

Seen someone comment "Looks aren't important" and thought it would be interesting to get everyone's opinion. I personally think this statement is ridiculous as from a biological standpoint, physical attraction is important, more so for men then woman but still important. Don't get mad at us men for physical attraction being more important to us men then women (still important for women), this is due to basic biology that dates back thousands of years and is still with us today. Through out human history, woman have been more forgiving in the looks department than men in exchange for being a good provider.

Ok. It's weird but social media shows it to be normal and to be fair not all girls are the same

And I don't know if this is a weird thing girls like.

I am talking about on average here I understand there is exceptions to the rule. But men and women are tricky as well as easy to catch in their own ways.

Men are much more impulsive cheaters on average. Not that women can’t have someone approach them at the right place right time but men are more likely to sleep with a woman he doesn’t even know…. So you may never know that it even happened. However they aren’t very planned out. They don’t really cover their tracks well and if they start talking to someone or something it becomes easier to spot.

Women on the second hand are usually much more planned out. They know who they want to cheat with as well as have a plan to cover their tracks before they act on it. What’s the catch? Women typically are sleeping with someone she or the both of you already know. After so long it becomes more obvious something is going on despite the gaslighting attempts.

The chances are higher that someone will rat her out, that you’ll notice she’s too close to someone, roomers, etc. Especially using their friends to cover it up sometimes one will start feeling bad and confess it. Or even seduce him and tell him.

So both are easy as well as hard to spot. Men are more messy. They don’t plan it out well and don’t cover their tracks well. As where with women they do BUT…. At the same time are doing it with someone close. At some point it becomes obvious if someone doesn’t say something

And yes its the bad #2.

If this ever comes up for any of you in real life im sure you'll thank me for having you work out what you might do jic lol.