Girls, What would you do on a first date dinner date, if after the meal, your date said, "you're paying, right"?

[Anonymous]

It's your first date, and he asked you out. You never discussed who was paying for what, and after the meal, the guy says to you point blank, "you're paying, right?"

I'd pull out my wallet and pay, no questions asked

I'd be taken aback, but would begrudgingly pay the bill

I'd ask why I'm paying, if YOU asked ME out

I'd eventually pay, but would make a mental note that I'm not going out with this guy again

I would refuse to pay without some solid explanation, definitely not cool

[Simslover92]

I'd pay though I'm not sure if I would go on another date unless the date went extremely well. Although I'm traditional and believe the guy should pay on the first date especially if he asked you out, I have no problem being the one to pay if it went well.

[ShellyB]

If he asked me out and if we did not talk about it in advance, I would rather pay than get in trouble for non payment, but he would not be somebody I wanted to spend any more time with ever.

[TrueConfection]

Yeah, not going to happen. At best, I would pay for what I ate and get a ride home.

[LiaRaven]

I’d stand up, smile, and walk away to teach the douchebag a lesson he’ll never forget lol

[Valdemort]

If the vibe was right or he said it in a playful way I'd pay for both of us.
If that's not the case I'm paying my half and bid him farewell lol

[Caroline91]

I'd apologize to the wait person and ask them to give me a separate check so I could pay for what I ordered. Then pay my bill and leave. No need to say anything more to my "date".

[Anonymous]

listen, if a guy expects you to pay for the first date or even HALF, it means he was not impressed by you and he does not like you. Men want to be providers, they only do not want to be providers for women they don't really care for.

please listen to my advice and stop believing that men designed to be the same way as women

[Rie1a_so]

Polls are so limited in answers. The most logical would be to split the bill. It’s the simple guys. If he refuses and still wants the girl to pay, welp—good luck bro. Pay your bill and go. It’s not rude, but logical, and common practice to do so. Regardless of gender, ur not entitled to get paid for. If he offers, that’s nice. If she offers, that’s nice.

[SarahP080106]

I would pay, but definitely call him out loudly enough so everyone knew and we would never see each other again

[EmmaMary]

I would pay the bill... And walk out without saying a word... Not even Goodbye.

[Nikki1989]

I won't gladly pay, but the fact that it wasn't worked out beforehand is a HUGE red flag.

[PeachyPie93]

Id pay but I probably wouldn't be seeing him again, I have enough friends.. lol

[beenherebefore]

I would excuse myself to the restroom and leave the restaurant.

[Anonymous]

i say we're splitting it.

thankfully i don't have to deal with dating crap anymore lmao. but we still split it. it's fair.

[xxheart09xx]

I'll say, its never been discussed. I will pay for my half. You pay for your own.

[TacosRAwesome]

I'll pay for what I had and he can deal with what he had.

[red-lipstick-girl]

OI'll pay but I won't see you again. I'm not anyone's bank.

[Anonymous]

I would politely pay, and that would be the last date with that loser. A woman should NEVER have to pay for anything on a first date.

[Anonymous]

It would never get that far. I was always upfront about paying my half. Brought up that way.

[Daphne98]

I date women so I pay my half then walkout without a word.

[Apple1996]

Pay and never talk to him again

[WhitneySnow]

I’d be like “No…”

[WhitneySnow]

If he insisted, I’d pay for my half, but I’d walk out and never speak to him again. I would absolutely not pay for the whole thing.

[Zoe91]

I’ve payed i don’t have problem with it.

[Alexa1999_]

I’d pay my half.

[Anonymous]

I say I am paying