Polls: Fashion & Beauty

Ok so I feel very gay right now...

i have on a captain america T shirt & tight light blue underwear
I literally look like Timmy thick right now

is this attire gay for a boy to wear?

No offense to gay people
it wouldn’t be offensive if a gay person asked
if it were straight to wear something.

So my girlfriend has never been one to dress SUPER revealing... she never once wore butt cheek shorts or had her boobs spilling out. But she's never been super modest either.

She just basically wears clothing of all sorts. From full pants/jeans to thigh length shorts... to maxi skirts/dresses to ones above the knee to near mid-thigh length... from high necklines to a crack or two of cleavage... from long sleeves to bare arms... from bare upper back to completely covered back... to showing midriff to midriff covered... she just basically wears both modest clothing, and clothing in which are a bit revealing, but not over the top.

To the gym or to exercise she usually wears a tank top and shorts, and takes her tank top off to work out just in her sports bra when she knows her bare body will not touch the equipment. I can't exactly blame her, as I take off my shirt as well.

To the beach/pool, she usually wears just traditional bikinis in which look like bra and underwear. The top shows a bit of cleavage but her boobs are well covered up, and the bottom shows a bit of butt cheek, but still covers her ass well.

No one is bothered by her choice of clothing, and no one even looks at her, so maybe I'm just being a bit paranoid.. but with all the preaching about "modesty" lately, it just sort of makes me wonder.

If it helps you, here are some visual examples to help you get more or less of an idea of what she wears.

Her shorts are about this length, upper to mid-thigh
Her skirts/dresses are sometimes above the knee

Other times they are close to mid-thigh length


When she shows cleavage it's only about this much
To the gym she usually dresses sort of like this
To the beach she usually wears bikinis like this
From the back, her bikini bottoms are about this revealing

Do any of those examples look too immodest to you? Be aware, she doesn't dress like that ALL time. It's like 50% of the time she dresses very modestly, and the other 50% she shows a bit of skin.

Trying to settle an argument between me and a friend. Who do you find more attractive?

So cleavage... it's both loved and hated at the same time. Lots of straight guys like how it looks, and lots of women like to show it... heck, sometimes even other women like how it looks... but at the same time, a lot of people consider it "gross" and "trashy", etc. And there's arguably different amounts appropriate in different settings.

By "how much" I mean exactly what it sounds... like do you show like only a 1-2 inch crack? Do you show the smaller upper half of your boobs, like about 30-40% of your boobs? Or do you show like half/50% of your boobs, and they hang out of your outfit? Does how much you show depend on the setting?

To make things easier, I made a poll with 3 different levels of cleavage... which one is the closest to the amount you usually show?

If you ask me about each kind, I'd say that 1 is perfectly appropriate for day to day casual life, 2 is only appropriate for parties, and 3 is too provocative to wear out in public, and only appropriate to wear around your lover. There's nothing wrong with 1, really. It's just a tiny crack, and looks perfectly modest and/or innocent. 2, however, is a bit more provocative, and more-so for party-like settings rather than everyday life. Plus, I'm sure her boobs would spill out even more so than that if she bent over. And 3... even when the woman is just standing up normally, it already basically shows her entire boobs. If she bent over, it'd probably show her bra or something.

But be aware, that's only MY PERSONAL OPINION, and what's usually appropriate around where I live, and I'm not trying to shame women in which may show greater quantities of cleavage in any way. Perhaps in their country, people are less bothered by skin and it's seen as normal.

So yeah...[insert title question here]... this is admittedly a bit of a pervy question, but I'm just genuinely curious about how much women generally show, and how things are like in different countries and such.